I have a few bridesmaids, some know each other outside the bridal party whereas some only met through being bridesmaids. I’ve planned a few bridesmaid meet ups so they all get to know each other more before the hen / big day which I thought was all going ok.
They have planned my hen do and all was going great people had paid deposits / booked flights and generally excited (everyone had over a year to to save and pay) I thought great!
Recently tho I had a message from one bridesmaid saying she’s no longer going to the hen do as she feels uncomfortable with my other bridesmaids and an ‘outsider’. Even tho everything has been booked and I honestly told her when planning there’s no expectation to come abroad but she was fine and we’ve had the bridesmaid catch ups so everyone knows each other, I’m not expecting people to be best mates but to be ok spending a few nights together for a hen do they have planned and of course the big day plus she gets on really well with two of them.It’s now made things awkward as I’m wondering if she doesn’t come to the hen do, how the others will react, how the wedding morning prep will unfold and I really don’t want to be upset (I’ve been on and off crying all week). Please can someone advise as I don’t want this dampening my hen do/ wedding but equally don’t want to ruin a friendship?
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