Hi Everyone,
I am having a small (50-60) destination wedding and I am set on having 2 Bridesmen (family) and 1 MOH (closest friend)
My fiance is only having his bestman and no groomsmen.
Now I have 1 other closest friend I was going to have as my bridesmaid. However I am second guessing myself and unsure whether the having that doubt there in the first place is enough to not have her. I fear I may regret having her but also regret not having her.
To paint the picture...We have been friends for around 5 years, will be 6 come the wedding day. We talk most days and rarely cross. However I do get majorly annoyed with her as she essentially copies everything I do, say, buy and I can tell she says things as she thinks it is what I am thinking...
I fear she will spend the entire "bridesmaid" time as taking notes for her own and essentially judging the entire thing rather than just being solely happy for me and supportive like I know my MOH will be. She can be quite immature in the way she presents herself and communicates with people which I don't want to have to worry about when she meets a lot of people on the wedding day as my bridesmaid.
She can be selfless and thoughtful in which I do think may be a good attribute to being a BM but I'm just so unsure.
I'm thinking since my fiance is only having his bestman, i could get away with only having my MOH (alongside my bridesmen) and she wont be offended given its a small wedding etc. I do think she would be the type to then not ask me to be a bridesmaid to her out of spite which I think would upset me but also wouldnt surprise me and only be a bad reflection on her and not me.
Looking for advice on if anyone has been in similar or for brutal honesty on my thought process....
Thanks in advance!
