Bridesmaids dilemma

If they are good friends, they will understand. Especially as you are only picking one out of the four. And if she is much closer to you than the other three, then they are probably already aware of that. I've been in a group of four friends where only two got picked as bridesmaids, and it was no surprise to us which two were asked.

However, I would still suggest waiting another year or so before asking. My best friend, who had been my close friend for over 30 years, suddenly went super-weird the year before our wedding and we barely have anything to do with each other now. If you'd asked me just a few months earlier, I'd have said we would be friends for life. It's taught me that you can never tell what is in store!

Hi,

I would say either opt out of having bridesmaids and only have a maid of honour or literary just have one bridesmaid in addition to the maid of honour. It is your wedding day and it is about who you trust to be by your side on that day and who you want to be by your side. But you have time until your wedding, I would say start thinking about it when you are like 12 months away from the big day. If you still feel the same way then you have your answer. Don't stress.