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Bus for guests

Lauryn, 2 March, 2025 at 20:10 Posted on Etiquette and Advice 0 2
Hello everyone.


I'm looking for advice regarding travel for guests. To make this worse, my FH and I and never been to a wedding before so we have no idea what the etiquette is.
We have a venue a 30 minute drive away from our home town as well as family who will need to travel 3 hours by car and will more than likely need their own accommodation.
My parents think we should put on a bus to get people home to our home town area (guests will be coming from 4 different towns within one area).
But FH and I think this is a reasonable distance for people to make there own way to and from. We have priced taxis and it works out very reasonable (£20 per person in total).
Is this reasonable or should be consider transport?

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Latest activity by RomanticGreenStationery27135, 5 March, 2025 at 19:07
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    Beginner May 2026 Monmouthshire
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    Hey, my partner and i are getting married in my home town (in South Wales)which is 2.5 hours away from where we live (his hometown, Surrey). I have people coming from all over Valleys, Sheffield, Peterborough, Sussex and Surrey. His family and friends are all coming from Surrey. Everyone is making their own way there but we thought to put something on to get everyone from the ceremony to the reception.. we have since decided against as we decided we will just pile everyone in to cars. We were at a wedding in 2023 where this happened and safe to say it was very successful.

    sorry for the long message but hope it helps

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    Genius July 2020 Monmouthshire
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    I really can't see how a bus is going to help with this situation, since it would require all your guests to travel to the same one or two locations to catch the bus to the venue. Those living near the venue are probably going to end up doing almost as much driving to get to the pickup point as they would if they just drove direct to the venue, while those who are coming from a distance are going to be doing a lot of driving anyway and may end up staying somewhere nowhere near your home town, so organising pickup points would be a logistical nightmare! And coming home, guests would still have to travel from the drop-off location to their overnight accommodation - plus some guests may want to leave earlier than others

    The only time I think it makes sense to provide transport is if the ceremony location doesn't have any parking, but if you are having it in the same place as the reception, I'm assuming there will be plenty. If you know of any guests who don't drive, it might be a kind gesture to try and link them up with those who do, but I really wouldn't worry - people are well used to sorting out their own transport to weddings.

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