Ok, I have a big problem. I'm not girly enough for all this wedding stuff!
Yes I have a very pretty ring, which is lovely and all the women I know are cooing over it, but then I go on wedding websites and I just don't like all the stuff someone with two X chromosomes is supposed to like! I just spent half an hour looking at a perfectly good invites website; I hated ALL of the designs. Even the blue ones and that's my favourite colour!
I've never been girly. I work in a male-dominated workplace for a start so I'm surrounded by men all day and then I come home to a man. I like comic books, superhero flicks, anime and gaming. I'd choose going to the F1 over getting a manicure. I'm really struggling to find wedding stuff that suits me and my personality and I know I'm not the only geeky bride out there. Fiance isn't as geeky as I am, but he likes that I'm not a normal girl (or else he wouldn't be marrying me!).
Anyway please say I'm not alone in this non-girly wedding planning. I'd really like some people like me to talk to about creating a fun and unique wedding that embraces some traditional aspects but also my inner nerd.