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Betty
Beginner July 2025 South Yorkshire

Can i invite my best friends only to reception?

Betty, 9 July, 2024 at 08:50 Posted on Etiquette and Advice 0 1

Hi, we are planning to get married next year, it will be very small wedding, maybe 10 people, as my fiance is very anxious socially. My firends know he does not go with me to any social events, I always go alone. To him getting married is very stressful, and even if I would love to invite my best friends, I know he does not want me to do that. So I was thinking and thinking, and thought, what about inviting them to a hen party and reception? Is that something which sounds ok? I am really heartbroken I cannot invite them, but I know it is not gonna happen, so I am trying to make everyone happy. As I said, wedding will be literally few people, so maybe it does not sound bad? How would you feel if your best friend did that?I am really looking forward to hear what you are all thinking, and maybe get some new ideas.

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Latest activity by RomanticGreenStationery27135, 9 July, 2024 at 14:28
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    I think it is fine - just be clear with your friends what you are inviting them to. I've seen it worded along the lines of "We are having a private wedding ceremony with immediate family only, but would love you to join our post-wedding celebration which will take place on..." Hopefully, if your friends are already aware of your fiance's social anxiety, they will understand why they can't attend the actual wedding.

    Alternatively, if it is mostly the vows/legal bit which is making your fiance so nervous, you could consider having the legal marriage on one day, with only your witnesses present, and then have a larger celebration/blessing ceremony to which everyone is invited.

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