Hi All,
We decided to go for an afternoon tea for our wedding as we liked the informality and also that it would cost less and leave more room in the budget for providing drinks (something which is a high priority for us).
The plan had always been to use a family friend's catering company and due to that fact, no costs were discussed up front (perhaps a mistake) and we just dove straight in to the menu.
We're having a choice of 6 canapes, sandwiches, tarts, quiches, savoury scones and salads for mains and then a selection of puddings. We have bacon sandwiches as a snack in the evening. We've been quoted £25 per head (70 guests) which includes cutlery and crockery but I believe no glasses and also doesn't include staffing costs, an extra of £370.
Total is over £2000 and will completely blow our budget. I'm really unsure what to do, it is too late to go with someone else as our wedding is 6 months away. Do we re-work the menu to try and bring the cost down or do we question charges at a risk of offending?
Having a quick peruse of other posts people have been saying more like £15-17 for afternoon tea which is what we were expecting.
Any advice would be appreciated... feeling very stressed about it all as costs keep piling up and up and my poor Dad is footing the bill.
Thanks x