So I went today to get measured for my dress, spoke to the lady and mentioned I had been having a few wobbles so we had another look around the shop. I saw another dress I really liked and tried it on. I loved the new dress, it was so huge though so couldnt try it on properly (usually the other way around) so anyways ive changed my mind and gone for the new dress. Its costin £100 more but has a matching jacket which is excellent as I was really worried about my arms.
This is it on the model its a Taneisha Jordan dress. Im so happy and releived now.