Changing the date after the "save the dates" were sent???

In all honesty i dont see the point in STD's for a couple of reasons, one of which being times like this when problems can arrise with arranging etc. I would be inclined, once sorted and confirmed of course, to contact the people you originally sent STD and tell them the problem and send the invites afterwards. Hope it all goes well when you manage to get hold of them - fingers crossed.

Yup i am cursing sending out the save the dates..... just could really do without all the hassle.....

Feeling like the wedding is on hold temporally put on hold whilst we sort out this mess, the catholic church is going to drive me barmy before i even get married...... aaahhhh

Did you manage to get hold of anyone?

No just wait until you send the invites out. and if you talk to people just mention it is now 23/7

we are date twins hehe

Is your ticker wrong??- the 23rd july is 8months 3 weeks and 5 days

Nope did not get hold of anyone and unfortunately will not be date twin sam as the ordination is like university graduation so the earliest would be 24th but my best friend has a wedding on the 30th so it is looking like a august date now, I have not changed my ticker has no idea to what date it will change

Ahh not good. hope you get it sorted soon

Thanks sam, fingers crossed for people answering the phone tomorrow!

Yeah I would tell people who you have sent the save the date too, and once you know the new date FOR CERTAIN ? then send out a little reminder.

Hope you manage to get hold of people once you decide on a new date!

Thanks Josie, yep i am definitely going to spread the word once all the i are dotted and the t's crossed - I was at that point before and it has just be unfortunate and unavoidable event... I think there is only one person it is going to inconvenience and all i can really say is that i am sorry....

Can't get hold of the women that runs the village hall till next week she is away on half term holidays aaaaahhhhh oh well in an hour at least i should hope to know where i stand with dates with regard to the church......

I think it's fine to change the date after a STD has been sent (although I'm biasedm I did this as well!).

If your wedding is a while away people wont have changed any plans or anything to accommodate your wedding, so I wouldn't worry too much about it at this point.

Hope you get it all sorted ?

Well have spoken to the priest and just need to check to see if the village hall is free but it looks like we are going to be getting married on the 13th of august.... but there is other availablility at the church but at later hour than i would like... if we get married on the 13th it would be at 12.30 rather than 2pm

oh and the photographer is free then so one less thing to worry about phew....

Brilliant, we its all coming together now. You will feel better when its all confirmed im sure.