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Sparkly Bear
Beginner October 2015

Changing your Passport to your married name, before the wedding...

Sparkly Bear, 28 March, 2014 at 06:34 Posted on Planning 0 19

Morning Ladies,

i am taking my OH surname when we get married and I really really want to travel on my honeymoon in my married name, we will fly two days after the wedding.

I know that I can get my passport changing into my married name, by getting the vicar to sign some documents for me and that the passport will only be valid from the date of our wedding which is fine as we aren't going away before hand.

Thing is, I have a friend who told me that if you change your passport before you get married then you have to sign your marriage certificate in your married name and not your maiden name... Is this right or not? As I know normally you would sign the marriage certificate in your maiden name as its the final time you will ever be a 'Miss' (unless of cause you aren't planning to change your name!)

i just wondered if she was right or not as it seems a little strange to me that you would sign your marriage certificate in your married name just because you changed your passport!

i hope this makes sense, I'm not very good at explains myself sometimes!

xx

19 replies

Latest activity by Cache13, 24 March, 2015 at 19:19
  • Helenia
    Beginner September 2011
    Helenia ·
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    You sign the marriage register, not the certificate. The registrar issues you with the certificate at the end of the ceremony, which does not have your signatures on. As your passport is only valid once you have that certificate, I can't see why you'd have to sign a different name on the register beforehand.

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  • Sparkly Bear
    Beginner October 2015
    Sparkly Bear ·
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    Yes sorry, I meant the register, it's too early for my mind to function!

    My thoughts are aligned with what you've written Helenia. I'm quite traditional and want to make sure that I sign the register in my maiden name , so when my friend told me this it threw me slightly!

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  • pammy67
    Beginner April 2015
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    No, your friend is wrong. You don't take your OH's name until you are married. You sign the register in your maiden name.

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  • Sparkly Bear
    Beginner October 2015
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    Good! Thank you pammy67! :-)

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  • B
    Beginner September 2012
    bia57 ·
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    I changed my name on my passport before the wedding, pammy67 is correct

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  • Lottie2409
    Beginner November 2014
    Lottie2409 ·
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    Has this changed? I have been married before in 2006 and my marriage certificate has my signature on it.

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  • Sparkly Bear
    Beginner October 2015
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    Thanks bia57. I am happy that this is the case! ?

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    Beginner April 2014
    Northernrose ·
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    I don' know if you've already booked your honeymoon or not, but bear in mind that the name on your passport has to match the name you booked the holiday in (i.e. if you change your passport to your married name you have to make sure you book the honeymoon in your married name as well).

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  • M
    Beginner January 2015
    murphy88 ·
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    You sign in your maiden name. As that's what you are named when you marry

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  • Sparkly Bear
    Beginner October 2015
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    Hi Northernrose!

    No, we havent booked our honeymoon yet, the flights for our destination aren't released until this November. I just wanted to be 100% sure before I booked the honeymoon about the whole passport / wedding register situation! ?

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  • Sparkly Bear
    Beginner October 2015
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    Thank you for this murphy88! I'm glad this is the case! ?

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  • Helenia
    Beginner September 2011
    Helenia ·
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    No idea what it was like before my own wedding (2011), and it may vary between councils/registry offices, but mine just has our names handwritten on it by the registrar, and the only signatures are the registrar and their deputy. We only signed the register itself.

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  • Kjay
    Beginner August 2013
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    We (me hubs and witnesses) signed the register and all the copies of our certificates (we did 3 copies so it took a while)..

    But yes it was in my maiden name as you already have confirmed Smiley smile

    (I also changed my passport prior to the wedding, this was mainly because it expired a few 4/5 before the wedding so didn't bother to renew it! otherwise I would have waited til the renewal to change my name- cheapskate you see)

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  • R
    Beginner August 2015
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    Hi,

    Can anyone help me! We are getting married on August 20th 2015 and are planning on having our honeymoon on September 12th 2015. But it is in Dubai and I have to change my surname as we are staying out there with family - we cant stay in the same room under their roof if we don't have proof we are married. I want to try and have a hassle free honeymoon so want to sort out my passport as soon as I can. Has anyone else had to do this? How much earlier can you change it and what do you need to do.

    Any help would be greatly appreciated!

    thanks

    Bex

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  • S
    Beginner September 2015
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    Bex, can you not book and travel in your maiden name but take your marriage certifiate as proof that your married? we booked out honeymoon before i'd even thought about getting passport changed so i could travel in married name and our travel agent strongly recommended I book and travel in maiden name to save any pre-wedding panics if there's a delay at the passport office.....

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  • MrsShep
    Beginner September 2014
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    Hi Rebecca, are you getting married in a registry office/hotel or a church? I changed my name before the wedding, I had to get a form and get the registrar to fill it out to prove we were getting married. You can change it up to 3 months ahead but be aware that it will be forward dated so you won't be able to travel on it until your wedding day. Don't forget to book your honeymoon in your married name too as it must match your passport.

    This should help:

    https://www.gov.uk/changing-passport-information/marriage-and-civil-partnership

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  • kimiu
    Beginner June 2015
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    ^^^^^ this. I've just changed my passport and got it back within about 10 days. It is post dated to the wedding day and means we can travel on honeymoon the next day as Mr and Mrs. I got the form from the registrar without any hassle and just filled in the passport form, paid the fee and away we go!!

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  • R
    Beginner August 2015
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    Hey Ladies

    Thank you so much for your help and advice! I just googled it and found a form - PD2 - that I need to fill out and get the registrar to sign. I think I will do this in June/July time! Thanks so much guys - nice to have some support and help!

    Hope your wedding planning is going smoothly

    Bex

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  • H
    Beginner May 2015
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    I had my 'new name' passport in the post last Friday! So exciting!

    You sign the register in your maiden name, the only thing you sign in your married name is your new passport application - that was weird!

    Hope that helps

    Smiley smile

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  • Cache13
    Beginner August 2015
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    i think it's a maximum of 3 months before you can change it Smiley smile

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