We got engaged in 2019 but have only just started properly planning the last month or so due to covid and personal issues. I'm struggling to choose bridesmaids.
I have a sister who will be maid of honour. I also have a group of 4 friends who i've known since high school and 1 since we were 5. I also have a future SIL.
I am closer to some of the group of 4 than others but feel i can't ask one without asking them all. I have 1 that i'm closest to and she jas always has been there so i would like her with me. It also wouldn't feel right not to have my childhood friend up there either. That leaves 2 of the 4, i was a bridesmaid for 1 of these 2 but if i ask her, it means i'm leaving just 1 of them out (although we are probably the least close). Then there is my partners sister who i'm not overly close to however we get on well enough.
I really want to try and get my bridal party confirmed but struggling to decide big time.
There will likely be 4-5 groomsmen including best man so would like to try and match if possible.
Any advice? Are there any other jobs a couple of them could do?