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Beginner August 2015

Church wedding & also giving notice?

Purplecake, 23 October, 2014 at 12:56 Posted on Planning 0 5

Hi, appreciate any help to make sure this is correct!

We're getting married in a catholic church, but i think we still have to give our notice to the council. The booklet the church gave us detailing all aspects of church wedding has a sentence mentioning to contact the council asap to book a registrar. So a few months ago i did, and the lady at council said our church has a suitable signatory so it wasn't necessary, but to call back to arrange giving notice. I checked with the church and they agreed there will be someone official there on the day provided by the church to do whatever it is the council normally provides (i think it's something to do with signing the register). So the booklet just must have been out of date.

The council have since given me a bit of paper for church to sign confirming this. But we've also booked in to give our notice in a few weeks, the bit you pay £35 each for. But when i mentioned this to my friend who got married in a CoE church, she had no idea what i was on about as she never had to go to the council. Instead she said she had 'her Banns read' which must serve the same as me paying the council.

So I assume catholic church's do not do a publication of banns. And instead we have to pay council? I'm just checking this council trip is necessary, as they're not providing anyone on the day, so i don't understand why it's needed for one church service and not another. Thanks!

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Latest activity by LRsoontobeLH, 23 October, 2014 at 18:38
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    Beginner December 2014
    rambosmum ·
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    That's correct C of E churches publish banns (which we pay £33 for) instead of you needing to give notice at the council. Both basically result in a marriage licence which allows you to marry.

    As you are marrying in a Catholic church you will need to apply to the council to give notice and receive licence to marry you will then give a copy of this to the church you are marrying in.

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  • cymruangel
    Beginner December 2014
    cymruangel ·
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    Yup, very much this.

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    Beginner August 2015
    Purplecake ·
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    Ahh that's perfect explanation. Thank you very much. I was concerned that as the council didn't need to send anyone on our day we didn't need them, but they still wanted us to go through the formality to get our ££ haha. Always distrusting! But that makes sense then, thanks both ?

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    Beginner August 2014
    LRsoontobeLH ·
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    Yeah you need to give your "notice of marriage" at the council who give you your licence (blue forms). You (or your groom who will be at the church first) need to present these on the day to the approved person who will be filling in all the information in the register.

    Are you getting married in your local parish? If so you just give notice at your local registry office. We got married away from our local parish and that was a whole other kettle of fish!!!

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    Beginner August 2015
    Purplecake ·
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    Yes it's our local church, and we're giving notice at our borough council. I don't know how this differs to registry office but the appointments been booked for weeks, and is for 2 weeks time. We really struggle with time off work so after the phaff of arranging this (which we'll now be doing on the drive home after a weekend visit to his parents as that's the only days leave we have booked rest of the year!) i can't change to the registry. Thanks for the suggestion x

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    Beginner August 2014
    LRsoontobeLH ·
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    Whoops! I meant your local council! Although in some places they're much the same really.

    We decided to get married in a catholic church where we both grew up, we no longer live there so we had to do a residency period and give notice in the borough where we were getting married! It was a huge faff but totally worth it!

    Good luck with all your plans for your day! :-)

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