Hi all,
Please help! I've had my first wedding melt down today and spent the start of the working day crying in the toilets over whether to invite a specific colleague to my wedding. I work in a small team (12 of us) and I made it very clear from the beginning that I am having a small wedding and unfortunately I will not be able to extend an invite to colleagues. I've also kept wedding talk to a minimum only answering basic questions about it so as to not make it a big deal in the office. I do however, have 2 colleagues that I consider close friends - we socialise outside of work, are always chatting on our group chat and I even went on holiday with one of them earlier in the year - and so naturally I have invited the 2 of them. Now a different colleague who I don't see often (and who for my first year and a half working here ignored me) is making me feel uncomfortable by asking if they're invited to my wedding every time I see him. I have been clear every time saying no, numbers are tight and I've had to exclude members of my family. But he is being soooo persistent and even my 2 work friends are starting to make me feel bad saying "why not, he's sweet and means well". I don't know what to do and would love some help!
