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Mrs Tonner 2010
Beginner June 2010

Complete Wedding Checklist

Mrs Tonner 2010, 12 February, 2010 at 18:00 Posted on Planning 0 27

Just found this online so thought I'd go through it lol.

  • Give Notice
  • Choose wedding party
  • Organise ceremony venue
  • Dress
  • Suits
  • Bridesmaids dresses
  • Flower girl dresses
  • Underwear
  • Shoes
  • Jewellery and accessories
  • Flowers
  • Rings
  • Invitations
  • Order of service
  • Hymns and readings (and people to read them)
  • Transport
  • Confetti
  • Reception venue
  • Catering
  • Accommodation
  • DJ
  • Songs list including first dance
  • Table decorations
  • Favours
  • Cake
  • Speeches
  • Thank you gifts
  • Transport for guests
  • First night hotel
  • Honeymoon

Left a blank one for you so you don't have to delete my stuff Smiley smile

  • Give Notice Done, twice. Grr
  • Choose wedding party Done
  • Organise ceremony venue Our family church
  • Photographer OH cousin doing it for free
  • Dress Done Smiley smile and all paid for
  • Suits Chosen and going on Tuesday to get measured up!
  • Bridesmaids dresses Alfred Angelo off eBay!
  • Flower girl dresses Done
  • Underwear Not yet!
  • Shoes Thrown in with the dress, just need to learn to walk in them!
  • Jewellery and accessories Mum's veil, got Alice band and hair pins. Need bracelet, necklace and earrings
  • Flowers Organised my bouquet, BM bouquet, wand for FG, 2 thank you bouquets for Mum's and 7 button holes, £100 left to pay
  • Rings Going shopping after 4Th March!
  • Invitations All made and written out, some posted some need delivering by hand!
  • Order of service Designed, just need to find a printer Smiley atonished
  • Hymns and readings All chosen and run by the Priest to be approved
  • Transport Using Parent's VW and friends Capri for free
  • Confetti Using bubbles instead
  • Reception venue Booked
  • Catering Included in venue, BBQ by chef on the terrace
  • Accommodation Venues a hotel and our rooms thrown in
  • DJ Still not found one!
  • Songs list including first dance First dance Iris by GooGoo Dolls, most of the list is written
  • Table decorations Got sweetie jars and mirror tiles, need sweets. Got the tea lights today
  • Guest book Having a guest board instead, needs putting together
  • Favours Got 100 organza bags filled with chocolates in my fridge (and not much room for anything else)
  • Cake MIL claims to be organising this but hasn't as of yet Smiley sad
  • Speeches I'm not doing one but OH, BM and my Dad are working on theirs
  • Thank you gifts Getting them in April
  • Transport for guests Dad's booked a mini bus for those not staying
  • First night hotel Included
  • Honeymoon OH in charge

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Latest activity by Mrswebb2b, 22 October, 2011 at 09:07
  • MsJackson78
    Beginner March 2010
    MsJackson78 ·
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    This list is fab! thanks, definitely will come in handy because I am near the end and I can make sure I havent missed anything.

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  • L
    Beginner October 2010
    LauraJaneRush ·
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    • Give Notice- y
    • Choose wedding party - y
    • Organise ceremony venue-y
    • Dress - got- just need to lose weight to fit in it!
    • Suits
    • Bridesmaids dresses- got
    • Flower girl dresses got
    • Underwear
    • Shoes -got
    • Jewellery and accessories
    • Flowers - found florist
    • Rings
    • Invitations- currently being made by my sister
    • Order of service
    • Hymns and readings (and people to read them)
    • Transport- booked limo for me and bridesmaids
    • Confetti
    • Reception venue- booked
    • Catering- will finalise nearer to time
    • Accommodation- need to organise who and where
    • DJ- booked
    • Songs list including first dance- in progress
    • Table decorations
    • Favours- got purple bags so far!
    • Cake - m&s?
    • Speeches- not for me to organise!
    • Thank you gifts
    • Transport for guests- provide own
    • First night hotel- booked
    • Honeymoon- booked

    feel quite organised! Thanks its a very helpful list! xx

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  • J
    Beginner August 2011
    Jelly_Bean ·
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    Thanks for this - I've copied it as I'm sure it will be very useful nearer the time Smiley smile However, as someone who has only just started planning, it looks like I've got a lot of work to do!!

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  • Beckyv83
    Beginner September 2010
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    • Give Notice - Y
    • Choose wedding party - Y
    • Organise ceremony venue - Y
    • Dress - kind of picked, just need to decide colour and material!
    • Suits - N
    • Bridesmaids dresses - N
    • Flower girl dresses - N/A
    • Underwear - N
    • Shoes - Y
    • Jewellery and accessories -N
    • Flowers - N
    • Rings - Mine yes (being made now!!!) - his no!
    • Invitations - got samples
    • Order of service n/a
    • Hymns and readings (and people to read them) - n/a
    • Transport - N
    • Confetti -N
    • Reception venue- Y
    • Catering - Y
    • Accommodation - Y
    • DJ - Y
    • Songs list including first dance - First dance yes, rest no
    • Table decorations - N
    • Favours - N
    • Cake - M&S Waiting for it to be 3 for 2!
    • Speeches - N
    • Thank you gifts -N
    • Transport for guests - N
    • First night hotel -Y
    • Honeymoon - N

    Ummm feel a bit behind now!!!!

    Great list though.

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  • Allgold78
    Beginner October 2011
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    Ooh good thread. I've got a while to go yet but here's how it's going so far:

    • Give Notice - Registrar booked. Can't give notice until 1st Oct
    • Choose wedding party - Done. Maybe just need an extra usher
    • Organise ceremony venue - Done
    • Dress - Will start shopping towards end of the year
    • Suits - Not even thought about it yet
    • Bridesmaids dresses - Been window shopping. Will take the girls shopping in the Jan sales, lol
    • Flower girl dresses - as above
    • Underwear - Not looked at yet
    • Shoes - Might wait til I've chosen the dress to get these
    • Jewellery and accessories - as above
    • Flowers - Been looking. Not going to have many at all.
    • Rings - not looked yet
    • Invitations - going to make them myself. Started gathering ideas
    • Order of service - will do them once I figure out what i like
    • Hymns and readings (and people to read them) - we're having a civil ceremony so no hymns but we're thinking about music and readings
    • Transport - Tricky one. Lots of bridesmaids and mum's in a wheelchair. Need to think about this one.
    • Confetti - Will get some nearer the time. I like the idea of providing confetti cones
    • Reception venue - Done
    • Catering - Done
    • Accommodation - Done
    • DJ - Done
    • Songs list including first dance - working on it. First dance chosen. We're going to ask each person to chose their fave love song ever and include that with their RSVP and then we'll make some CDs with them all on to play through the day.
    • Table decorations - Been looking. not bought anything yet though.
    • Favours - this is a tricky one. can't decide on anything yet.
    • Cake - cupcakes and small top cake to cut. Not looked at different varieties yet though.
    • Speeches - Not even thought about it yet
    • Thank you gifts - Started looking. Nothing bought yet
    • Transport for guests - nope, not providing this
    • First night hotel - Done
    • Honeymoon - we're saving our £2 coins in a jar for this. Will book something early next year

    Phew, that was quite a list. I'm quite surprised at how much we've done already though.

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  • J
    Beginner September 2010
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    • Give Notice - yup Smiley smile
    • Choose wedding party - done
    • Organise ceremony venue - done
    • Dress -done
    • Suits - waiting for H2b to organise - may take a while!
    • Bridesmaids dresses - done
    • Flower girl dresses - not having any
    • Underwear - nope, am still pondering this one
    • Shoes - done
    • Jewellery and accessories - jewellery is done but still undecided on accessories
    • Flowers - I know what I want but can't find anyone to do it within budget lol
    • Rings - still need to organise, not sure what we're having yet
    • Invitations - done nd printed. Just waiting to send them
    • Order of service - not bothering
    • Hymns and readings (and people to read them) - ain't got a clue yet!
    • Transport - my dad is organising this
    • Confetti - will let people bring their own
    • Reception venue - done, but need to think of decorations
    • Catering - reception venue are organising this once we tell them how many people are coming
    • Accommodation - leaving people to organise their own
    • DJ - organised by a friend of us
    • Songs list including first dance - still compling! Its a blooming long list!
    • Table decorations - to be arranged!
    • Favours - not bothering
    • Cake - being made by a family friend
    • Speeches - my dad has started his as has the best man, but H2B will probably wing his!
    • Thank you gifts - getting there!
    • Transport for guests - minibus booked
    • First night hotel - not bothering I odn't think, will prob just stay at our house
    • Honeymoon - booked last week! Vegas and Mexico, yeah baby! Just got to pay for it now!
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  • emsa1
    Beginner May 2011
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    I found some amazing checklist excel spreadsheets on another wedding site so not sure if i'm allowed to post a link to it on here!!

    it was on the wedding ideas mag website and they are totally amazing, they do them for guest lists, table plans and a complete one for everything and you can just adapt them with your own stuff as well!

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  • S
    Beginner October 2011
    superlauren321 ·
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    Fabulous thank you!

    if i'd have done something like that myself i have missed something really important off like a bloody wedding dress or something daft like that!

    xxxx

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  • MrsAtoB
    Beginner August 2010
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    • Give Notice - Yes
    • Choose wedding party - Yes
    • Organise ceremony venue -Yes
    • Dress -Yes
    • Suits - NO
    • Bridesmaids dresses - NO
    • Flower girl dresses - NO
    • Underwear -NO
    • Shoes -NO
    • Jewellery and accessories - NO
    • Flowers -YES
    • Rings -YES
    • Invitations-YES
    • Order of service-NO
    • Hymns and readings (and people to read them) SORT OFF
    • Transport -NO
    • Confetti -YES
    • Reception venue- YES
    • Catering -YES
    • Accommodation-YES
    • DJ -YES
    • Songs list including first dance -YES
    • Table decorations -YES
    • Favours -YES
    • Cake -YES
    • Speeches -NOPE
    • Thank you gifts -NOPE
    • Transport for guests -NOPE
    • First night hotel YES
    • Honeymoon -NOPE
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  • K
    Beginner April 2010
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    [
    • Give Notice done
    • Choose wedding party done
    • Organise ceremony venue done
    • Photographer done
    • Dress got to have last fitting, dress just come back into shop after adjustments
    • Suits last one to be measured today
    • Bridesmaids dresses £50 form M&S
    • Flower girl dresses 1 to be measured sunday
    • Underwear sorted
    • Shoes distressed silver from next
    • Jewellery and accessories not sure, not decided what i want
    • Flowers done
    • Rings got mine, got to get h2b
    • Invitations sent out, about 3/4 back
    • Order of service in middle of doing
    • Hymns and readings done
    • Transport classic laundalette
    • Confetti not thought about
    • Reception venue done
    • Catering by venue
    • Accommodation at venue
    • DJ comes with venue
    • Songs list including first dance done
    • Table decorations to do at weekend
    • Guest book got to look for
    • Favours buckets of mini eggs & scratch cards
    • Cake go to find a pic, MIL making
    • Speeches not done
    • Thank you gifts still thinking
    • First night hotel in with venue package
    • Honeymoon done

    not doing too bad, few things to sort

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  • Mel B
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    Ooh I like this....here goes..

    • Give Notice -----not yet
    • Choose wedding party --done
    • Organise ceremony venue --done
    • Dress ---done
    • Suits --done
    • Bridesmaids dresses ---done
    • Flower girl dresses ---not having any
    • Underwear ---not yet
    • Shoes ---done
    • Jewellery and accessories ---done
    • Flowers ---done
    • Rings ---done
    • Invitations ---almost finished
    • Order of service ---almost finished
    • Hymns and readings (and people to read them) ---done
    • Transport ---- done
    • Confetti ---s'up to others to bring it
    • Reception venue ---done
    • Catering ---done
    • Accommodation ---done
    • DJ ---done
    • Songs list including first dance ---done
    • Table decorations ---done
    • Favours ---almost done
    • Cake---sorted
    • Speeches ---sorted
    • Thank you gifts ---done
    • Transport for guests ---will be booked
    • First night hotel ---done
    • Honeymoon ---not having one till 2011

    Phew, I'm glad most of it is done with still 5 1/2 months to go!!

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    If you want to get more materials that related to this topic, you can visit: Catering business checklist

    Best regards.

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  • ajdown
    VIP September 2011
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    Seems like we're more or less there...

    Give Notice - done

    Choose wedding party- done

    Organise ceremony venue- done

    Dress- done

    Suits - done (wear their own)

    Bridesmaids dresses - done

    Flower girl dresses - done

    Underwear - b2b sorting

    Shoes - b2b sorting

    Jewellery and accessories - done

    Flowers - done

    Rings - done

    Invitations - done

    Order of service - done

    Hymns and readings (and people to read them) - done

    Transport - not needed

    Confetti - people can organise their own but I'm sure we'll bring some along.

    Reception venue - done

    Catering - done

    Accommodation - done

    DJ - not needed as we're having a barn dance

    Songs list including first dance - organising with band

    Table decorations - in progress

    Favours - in progress, just need to get a couple of things

    Cake - arranged

    Speeches arranged

    Thank you gifts - in progress

    Transport for guests - why is this our problem??? We've provided a map. They're adults.

    First night hotel - done

    Honeymoon - done

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  • Little Pixie
    Beginner September 2011
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    Photogrpher is missing off that list :-)

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  • Mrs C
    Beginner March 2011
    Mrs C ·
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    This is a very old thread!!!

    Whatever happened to Mrs Tonner??

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  • Mrs C
    Beginner March 2011
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    Oooh no... I hope she is ok *calls out to her in the internet world*

    She was the first Queen of Vistaprint!!

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  • Mrs C
    Beginner March 2011
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    There are a few missing Hitchers... maybe they need a shout out!

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  • Mrs C
    Beginner March 2011
    Mrs C ·
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    Yay!

    There are quite a few MIA.... and for those that are BOM's... have they bypassed OT and gone straight to BT? I can't go in there, it's scary!

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  • BustyB
    Beginner June 2012
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    • Give Notice - As today its a year till our Wedding Day, we need to sort this out!
    • Choose wedding party - Done
    • Organise ceremony venue - Nearly done, they wouldnt take a booking till now! Argh!
    • Dress - Brought and upstairs!
    • Suits - OH hasnt even thought about this yet.....!
    • Bridesmaids dresses - They are all choosing and buying their own. 50s black and or white dresses.
    • Flower girl dresses - My sister will be buying their dresses. Either black and white or red and white polkadot. Havent decided yet.
    • Underwear - I think I will get this (If I can squeeze my HH boobs into an H cup!!!) http://www.bravissimo.com/products/lingerie/sensational-sets/lula-mai-bra/antique-ivory/mq61ai/?show=16&sort=1
    • Shoes - No idea yet, still looking.
    • Jewellery and accessories - I think I will wear the necklace my OH first brought me
    • Flowers - Not having any really. The only flowers will be in jam jars on the tables, my Mum is growing them. I am having a lollypop bouquet. Im not sure if any other people in the Wedding party should have something.....hmmm
    • Rings - Looked online but not decided yet
    • Invitations - OH is to sort these out, as hopefully he will get them for free. He is a graphic designer.
    • Order of service - I dont know if we will have any printed.
    • Hymns and readings (and people to read them) - No hymns but 2 readings (one of my sisters and best friend). I have chosen a few, either they can read one of those or choose one themselves.
    • Transport - We have looked into a red 50s car but we cant afford it. So most likely just a taxi.
    • Confetti - Havent even thought about that! Cant really decide until I know if its allowed at the registry office
    • Reception venue - My families home
    • Catering - Done! Fish and chips.
    • Accommodation - Decided but not booked yet
    • DJ - OH's Ipod
    • Songs list including first dance - Its getting there.....
    • Table decorations - jam jars with flowers inside. Slowly collecting jars, Mum is growing the flowers.
    • Favours - Not having any, but we are having a sweetie buffet but I dont class this as favours.
    • Cake - Cupcakes with a giant cupcake on top. Mum is making them.
    • Speeches - Dad, Best man, MOH, OH (and maybe me.......)
    • Thank you gifts - Not sorted yet
    • Transport for guests - They can get there themselves!
    • First night hotel - Decided but not booked yet
    • Honeymoon - Will decide nearer the time if we can afford it

    Bx

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  • sapphire_22
    Beginner September 2011
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    Give Notice - y Choose wedding party - y Organise ceremony venue -y Dress - y Suits - up to OH when he wants to finally get around to this Bridesmaids dresses - as above, but replace 'OH' with 'BM' Flower girl dresses - no FGs Smiley sad Underwear - will organise in August Shoes - y Jewellery and accessories - y, apart from earrings Flowers - y Rings - y Invitations - day ones gone out, evening ones out next week Order of service - no Hymns and readings (and people to read them) - no Transport -y...kind of Confetti - y Reception venue - y Catering - y apart from eve buffet Accommodation - y DJ - no, but getting there Songs list including first dance - no!!!! Table decorations - y, buying everything next week Favours - y, as above Cake - y Speeches - no, have ages yet Thank you gifts - no, but know what we're getting them Transport for guests - n/a First night hotel - y Honeymoon - y

    Almost everything done! Thanks thats made me feel much better Smiley smile

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  • C
    Beginner August 2012
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    OOh this post is old, but can help me sort my bits out

    • Give Notice - done and sorted
    • Choose wedding party - sort of done - agreed my sis to be MOH, he's not having BM
    • Organise ceremony venue - done and booked
    • Dress - been given by a relative, needs cleaning and slight adjustments
    • Suits - he can sort himself out, will organise my dad nearer the time
    • Bridesmaids dresses - sister lives in Australia, so she will probably sort her own
    • Flower girl dresses - to be sorted, been looking round for them
    • Underwear - not yet, too early (i go up and down in sizes depending on day of the week!)
    • Shoes - been looking, not a shoe person, so its gonna be tough!
    • Jewellery and accessories - nearer the time, or if I seem something like between now and then
    • Flowers - have no idea about such things, he says "you never bought any since we been together, why now??" but determine to find something, when I know what colour I'm going with
    • Rings - been investigating
    • Invitations - bought and ready to go after xmas
    • Order of service - not needed (10mins in registry office!)
    • Hymns and readings (and people to read them) - see above!
    • Transport - know what I'd like, just can't seem to source
    • Confetti - is not allowed at reception and limited at registry office
    • Reception venue - booked, 2nd payment due in 2 weeks
    • Catering - included in reception
    • Accommodation - need to view it soon and book sometime after xmas
    • DJ - included in reception package, unsure if i have to contact and confirm or if they have done it
    • Songs list including first dance - something we need to work on
    • Table decorations - have no ideas - looking for inspirations and coming up blanks!! HELP??
    • Favours - see above
    • Cake - hoping OH's work colleague will do us a deal, also researching other possibles
    • Speeches - OH declares his goes as far as saying "thanks for coming, bar's open, mine's a pint!"
    • Thank you gifts - tbc
    • Transport for guests - do we have to arrange that??
    • First night hotel - to be arranged with reception venue
    • Honeymoon - will be taken a month or so later when its not peak season/olympics/school holidays!! but have at least narrowed it down to few days in Yorkshire (we are on a minor budget here!!)

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  • kiiradee
    Beginner November 2011
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    • Give Notice = y
    • Choose wedding party =y
    • Organise ceremony venue = y
    • Dress =y
    • Suits = y
    • Bridesmaids dresses =y
    • Flower girl dresses = not needed
    • Underwear = yes
    • Shoes = yes
    • Jewellery and accessories = yes
    • Flowers = yes
    • Rings - yes
    • Invitations = yes
    • Order of service = not having
    • Hymns and readings (and people to read them) = yes
    • Transport = yes
    • Confetti = no
    • Reception venue = yes
    • Catering = yes
    • Accommodation = yes
    • DJ = yes
    • Songs list including first dance = yes
    • Table decorations = yes
    • Favours = yes
    • Cake = yes
    • Speeches = yes
    • Thank you gifts = yes
    • Transport for guests = not needed
    • First night hotel = yes included
    • Honeymoon = yes morroco

    thanks awesome list

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  • M
    Beginner July 2012
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    • Give Notice - Not sure! We are marrying in CoE and have filled in the banns certificate but do i need to do anything else??!!
    • Choose wedding party - Done just need to decide on witnesses
    • Organise ceremony venue - Done
    • Dress - Done Maggie Sottero Brielle
    • Suits - Still to do in the new year
    • Bridesmaids dresses - Done just need alterations in the new year
    • Flower girl dresses - Not having any
    • Underwear - Chose it but need to order
    • Shoes - Still not decided
    • Jewellery and accessories - Still to sort
    • Flowers - Booked and deposit paid
    • Rings - Chose just need to order in the new year
    • Invitations - Ordered and just had confirmation that they been dispatched yey!
    • Order of service - Not even thought about
    • Hymns and readings (and people to read them) - Chose one reading but not who is doing them
    • Transport - Arranged just need to pay deposit
    • Confetti - Still to sort
    • Reception venue - Booked and deposit paid
    • Catering - Included in above
    • Accommodation - Booked and paid for
    • DJ - Included in Reception package
    • Songs list including first dance - Can't decide on first dance!!!
    • Table decorations - Not having any other tat (no offence) apart from flowers, menu and place cards
    • Favours - Decided what we are having just need a trail run
    • Cake - Decided need to pay deposit
    • Speeches - Leaving that to OH, Dad and Best Man
    • Thank you gifts - Will get next year
    • Transport for guests - Will book a mini bus for guest staying at the hotel with us.
    • First night hotel - Covered under Accomodation
    • Honeymoon - TBC we are going to start this as a whole new project once we are married!

    After going through that list i can see i really need to get my butt in to gear we have loads of deposits to pay but we have had so much on ive not been able to get to pay them!!

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