Help! Me and my h2b are stuck on who should be coming to the day and who should be coming to the evening!
my h2b has a large group of friends. Some we see very often and some we see maybe once or twice a year. They are in the same friendship group and have been friends since school. We were thinking to invite all of them and their partners to the day though are now having second thoughts. My h2bs best man has started organising the stag do, he’s sent out a message to all of the boys, but there are a few of them that have read the message and not replied which I think my partner feels quite disappointed about. Do we just invite the boys that have responded and are willing to go on the stag do to the day and have the others as evening guests. Or do we just have them all to the day? I don’t want to come across as being petty but I’m kind of looking at it as if they aren’t willing to pay to go on a stag do to celebrate my partner getting married then why should we scrimp and scrape together so they can come to our wedding.