Dealing with impatience

I am exactly the same. I just want the wedding to be here and to be Mrs B! Oh and go on the honeymoon of course! ?

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I have been waiting 9 bloody years...lol

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Same here! I've started on the silk flowers this week, and I've got 13 months to go yet!

Patience is not my strong suit, so I've been collecting pictures and ideas, comparing prices and generally surfing for ideas. I just want to be Mrs D, and I've got FOREVER to wait!

I keep thinking this as well then i look at my ticker and think actually its creaping up lol xx

Am I the only one that read that as Impotence ?

LMAO, Frizz.

I'm still waiting on the bloody proposal, let alone the actual wedding.

Nice to hear im not the only one.

My gosh you haven got long left at all. You must be so excited! Do you have everything sorted?

We have done it all a little backwards...lol. House, kids then marrige. But on the plus side i know what to expect from married life as i have been living the life (just with the wrong surname) for 12 years. Cant wait to to become MrsD.

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Ditto! I've been living the married life for nearly 11 years now and never thought we'd actually do it! But i am just making the most of every day as i know, just like Christmas, it will come and go in an instant. But unfortunately your wedding day doesn't come around again every year.

Very true.

Might sound odd but its the morning after im most excited about right now. Will finally wake up with my husband for the very firs time.

I a so pleased that i'm not the only one feeling impatient, I feel organised enough to have the wedding tomorrow and I think H2B is getting high;y amused by my frustration at having to wait. Nothing will really start happening again until my dress is in the shop. I just want to be Mrs D.

Im SOOO impatione abot everything! this has got to be the hardest-i actually said to my friend the other day i wish xmas would hurry up and go so i can really start counting down!!

I find I get on the internet to find dresses or jewellery and then start panicking that I cant find things i really like-i still have months to go!!some nights I have been up until midnight looking at stuff.........think i need help!

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We've done stuff backwards too. Had a baby, got engaged, then moved in together, and getting married next year when our daughter will be 2 1/2ish!

us too!! he has brought up my daughter as his own then we had a baby, moved in then got engaged! but i think its really nice that the kids are so involved with the day-and they are going to do our cake for us!!

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Our day is very focused on the kids too; I have 2 sons from a previous relationship aged 4 and 5 and h2b is really amazing with them. Lots of our friends have little kids so we've gone for a designated kids table in the centre of the room and we're having a bouncy castle outside plus loads of lawn games like giant jenga, giant connect four, croquet - loads of stuff! I bet the grown-ups spend more time on the bouncy castle than the kids do though!

I am terrible with impatience too - dying to do SOMETHING, anything to do with the wedding that isn't browsing through wedding magazines. Which I bloody love by the way, so much fab stuff in them, I must have 10 already!

And we are having a very kid orientated day too. My 4 and 5 year old are from my previous (horrible) relationship so they are unbelievably excited. And me and OH have zee baby together now and he'll be walking by then so it should be nice and chaotic.

There will be 18 kids at our day woooooooooooo it'll be like a play gym!