Hi all,
sorry to rant but I just need to let this all ok. OH has been married before but separated for a few years, 2 years ago divorce proceedings had begun. She has always been very stubborn and controlling over it all. We kept our engagement very quiet so it didn't cause any issues. Anyway she he somehow found out and now she has refused to apply for the absolute. The nisi came through on feb 14th and absolute was due 28th march. As she is the petitonior we can't apply for the absolute until 4 and a half months after the nisi making it the 28th June. The problem is we have to give notice by august the 1st at the latest and they will let our date go. The courts have said there is a backlog on the paperwork so once we apply on the 28th June it could take 4-6 week to get it through.
At the moment I feel all our plans are on hold and there is a strong chance we could loose our date and all our deposits. I know nothing can be done but just feel so stressed about it all.
Sorry to rant just need to let it out
xx