Help! I need some advice. In my workplace there are a group of about 5 of us girls who lunch together and occasionally socialise outside of work. One of the girls and I don't get on, as in we don't even say hello in the mornings, but we are civil if we are out for the sake of the others. She got married in 2012 when we were still on speaking terms and invited me to her hen do and evening reception, I think she felt obliged because she invited the others. I in turn felt obliged to go as she had made the effort to invite me when she clearly didn't want to! However, things are now much worse between us and as I mentioned, we barely even acknowledge each other now. I have told the other girls that they will be invited to my evening reception but I really don't want to invite her. Trouble is, I know if I don't it will make things unbearable at work afterwards. What do I do? I realise this makes me a massive hypocrite if I don't invite her. Should I just invite her and hope that she doesn't come as I'm not giving them plus ones and she will have to stay over as the reception is a long way from where she lives?
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