Do you NEED a hen night?

How about going out for a nice meal? Or have a girly night in with pizza, films, popcorn etc.?

No you don’t need one. I’m not one for going out and getting drunk either, and I also don’t like spas. So instead we went to play ‘It’s a Knockout’ in the afternoon and went out for a nice meal in our local town on the evening. I also had my mum, one uncle, other uncles GF and neighbour with us for the event, and on the evening my other uncle joined us for the meal ?

How about something different to a night out? A meal? Afternoon tea? Chocolate making?

Ooh, I love the afternoon tea idea, somewhere a bit 'fancy', just to treat yourselves to something refined

The total opposite to me getting trashed and yelling karaoke.

No.. I'm not having one, even though I'd like to have one. Problem is, all my close friends are in Canada or the states.. and the friends I made here during my masters have all gone, and since working I've not made any friends. Just call me billy no-mates!

Where in Kent are you venart??? We've got similar dates.... Maybe we could do something unusual?! We could switch stories over cocktails/tea/vodka!!!

I don't think you NEED a hen night.

However, I also don't think hen nights are always about getting hammered, going to night clubs etc (unless that is what you want)..... I think it is about getting a group of people you like together to do something you enjoy.

You can do something slightly different like those previous suggestions. Girlie night in, meal out, afternoon tea....all sounds really nice.

But no, you really don't have to have one or do anything. It's up to you :-)