I’ve asked my sister to be maid of honour and so far I feel like my wedding is just a huge inconvenience to her. The first thing she did when she opened the invite was moan about “how much this wedding is going to cost her”. (She’s not short of money)
We’re all staying at the venue the night before and when she booked her room she haggled a discount. Then when she called a few weeks later to pay they had no record of her discount so she said she wasn’t going to bother staying the night before, even though I wanted all the bridesmaids there. In the end I had to call my wedding co-ordinator at the venue and she honoured the discount for me.
Now she’s saying she won’t be coming to the rehearsal the day before because her son has football club and she’s got too much to do at home! She said that I can just fill her in on what she needs to do on the day! Now I’m worried that she won’t know what part of the music to start walking down the aisle to, in what order, or where to sit when she reaches the end!
I don’t really want to say anything and cause a family row but it is all stressing me out and making me feel quite upset.
