Pointless post really but I'm in a dilema over whether to have an extra bridesmaids.
I currently have 4 adult bridesmaids but I didn't ask my best friend from school as we have both been busy over the past year and with us not meeting up I thought she might not mind not being a BM. Anyway, shes been getting really involved in the wedding recently and I've been thinking that really I should just have asked her in the first place as we're still close even if we don't get in touch all the time.
But, if I ask her now 4 bridesmaids seems a lot already so would 5 look like too many? Also, would everything look out of balance on the pictures if there are 5 bridesmaids (stupid thought I know!)? I don't have anyone giving me away as my dad died so the pictures may look "off-balance" anyway so it might no make any difference but I just wonder if 5 is just one too many?
any advice welcome!