So my FI and I booked our wedding for next Oct, at first I was happy and now it seems to have gotten to the point where I am dreading getting married. So my thought process is:
Can we move the wedding forward to this year ...4 months away? October/Nov time and downsize our guest list/invites. My OH has already sent a lot of STD to his friends but these are people he's not seen in years ( since we've been together). Our venue is okay with the change of date which is AMAZING
So my question is am i being selfish moving this forward and downsizing, i hate attention and i feel now the whole reason i wanted to get married has been lost. I think waiting 500 days to get married is so long away its making me dread it even more.
I feel more excited about the prospect of a small wedding but sooner - thoughts ? anyone ever changed plans this dramatically?