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Beginner August 2023 East Riding of Yorkshire

Dress doubts.

Terri, 14 July, 2023 at 12:03 Posted on Wedding Attire 0 11
Hi everyone! It’s our big day in 4 weeks and I’ve recently started to have doubts about my dress 😬 I can’t stop looking at it on a picture my mum took and trying to pick out tiny little faults. I purchased my dress 2 years ago when we got engaged. I’ve been really naughty and I’m looking at other dresses but I can’t find any I like. I’m hoping this is a sign that the dress I’ve already got is meant to be. Has anyone else felt like this or feeling like it? Is it normal? TIA ❤️

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Latest activity by Lmb, 13 September, 2023 at 13:58
  • R
    VIP July 2020 Monmouthshire
    RomanticGreenStationery27135 ·
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    I think it's quite normal, especially if you've kept looking after buying your dress! Remind yourself of the reasons you bought the dress in the first place and stop looking at other dresses!

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  • Kerri Risbey
    Curious August 2023 Gloucestershire
    Kerri Risbey ·
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    I felt the same when I bought mine, I kept looking at other dresses and comparing it. However, as soon as I put my dress back on I knew it was the one!

    I think it is quite normal to have doubts, it's such a big decision! Are you able to try your dress back on yet? I think as soon as you put it on you'll feel at ease Smiley smile

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  • T
    Beginner August 2023 East Riding of Yorkshire
    Terri ·
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    I’ve spoken with the lady I bought my dress from and she said it’s pretty normal to feel the way I do, so that’s put me at ease massively. I was having an emotional day and I think I everything just got on top of me. You just want the day to be perfect don’t you 🙂 after a little cry I’m feeling so much better about everything, so maybe that’s what I needed 🙈
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  • Ajx
    Dedicated April 2024 West Yorkshire
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    I also felt like this, I was planning to go dress shopping again even though I have my dress at home now but once i'd tried it on again I knew straight away that was the dress I wanted to wear on my big day. I think it's totally normal to have second thoughts but remember you picked that dress for a reason! x

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  • Chloe
    Curious October 2023 Leicestershire
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    It's 100% normal, everyone I know that has gotten married felt the same, I'm currently 3 months out and have the same thoughts but every time I put it back on I love it to pieces again!
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  • T
    Beginner August 2023 East Riding of Yorkshire
    Terri ·
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    It’s actually nice to know other people have felt the same way. I thought it was something I was going to have to change yet I didn’t want to spend anymore money. I think once I’ve got my hair and make up done, I’ll fall in love with it all again!
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    Beginner July 2023 East London
    Kingsfordboafo ·
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    Please l want to get marry to Grace Dent be fastDress doubts. 1
    l promise to love you forever and ever 🥰💍
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    Beginner July 2023 East London
    Kingsfordboafo ·
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    Dress doubts. 2
    Love is sweet my dear I love you 🥰💍
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  • Sarah
    Rockstar August 2024 West Midlands
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    Hi there.


    Sorry to hear about your doubts! I can’t relate in relation to how long ago you brought your dress and how close your wedding is but I can provide some reassurance that doubt is absolutely so common.
    I had doubt within 6 weeks of saying yes to the dress and placing my order. Merely because I kept looking back at photos of it and over analysing. I went back and fell in love again.
    Remember, there is a reason why you picked that dress. Way more than what you look like in it, but how it made you feel. Re try it on if you can and I’m sure you’ll kick yourself for even having second thoughts. I would strongly recommend stop looking at other dresses though! Realistically speaking there ate always new dresss being released and out on the market and something might capture your eye but that’s not what you’ve brought right now so focus on what you do have xxx
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  • Chloe
    Curious October 2023 Leicestershire
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    Definitely! You picked it the first time for a reason, it's definitely your dress Smiley smile
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  • L
    Beginner June 2024 Kent
    Lmb ·
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    Omg same I’ve scheduled an appointment with a seamstress to make a few alterations and it’s made me feel a lot better tbh!
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