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Dedicated April 2022 Staffordshire

Engaged! This is so so surreal...

Pinkcoffee22, 28 October, 2020 at 09:58 Posted on Planning 1 13

Good morning, everyone!

I just wanted to introduce myself! My name is Hayley and I'm a business owner, mother of 3, and now fiancée!

My boyfriend became my fiancé last Thursday after the most beautiful proposal, and I honestly have never felt so happy or in love. He is my world and more, and so the realisation that I get to spend the rest of my life with him has been so incredible and yet so surreal. I've honestly been on Cloud 9 since.

And so now it's on to all things engagement, wedding-planning and celebration!

We've booked our wedding date (April 22, 2022), paid the deposit on our venue, booked in our before- and after-wedding accommodation for the night before the wedding and the night after, booked in our string quartet, and I'm now in the process of ordering various equipment and tools to allow me to make our Save the Dates and invites. I'm crazy busy all the time, and although I'd love to make and create everything myself, being practical, there just won't be the time--but the Save the Dates is one aspect I definitely want to be doing myself.

Anyway, sending Happy Engagement and Wedding Planning wishes out across the forum, and I hope to get to know some of you during this super exciting 18 months!

Hayley xx


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Latest activity by Dany, 11 November, 2020 at 12:32
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    Genius July 2020 Monmouthshire
    RomanticGreenStationery27135 ·
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    Congratulations!

    In the midst of all your booking, don't forget to book the registrar! Depending on how big the local registry office is, there may not be that many registrars available, and you don't want to find they're all fully booked for your big day!

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  • Pinkcoffee22
    Dedicated April 2022 Staffordshire
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    All booked already! ♥️♥️♥️
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    Curious October 2021 Norfolk
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    Hi Hayley, huge congrats on your engagement and mega impressed with how quickly you've got into booking everything! Smiley laugh We booked our venue about two weeks after our engagement and I had to confess that i'd already done alot of pre-engagement planning Smiley xd What type of wedding are you having?

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  • Jacky
    Savvy June 2022 West Yorkshire
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    Wow - you are super organised arranging that in less than a week - did you already know where you wanted to get married? We got engaged in August and have just booked our venue and registrar (June 2022) - I'm a bit scared to book too much else given it's still so far away.

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    Dedicated April 2022 Staffordshire
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    No, we had no idea at all! But it’s lucky we found our venue because the only availability they had was on our chosen wedding date! #Fate


    I feel super confident booking things because it’s so far away. I’d rather that than find there’s no availability for things. I’ve already been told there’s no availability for a few photographers for our date—which is 18 months away.
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    Savvy June 2022 West Yorkshire
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    That is lucky, congratulations! We were flexible on our date, jus wanted a Saturday in summer but found dates were booking up quick.


    Given what you've said I might start looking at the big stuff now - photographer, band etc. if they're starting to book up already.
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    Beginner March 2022 Central & Glasgow
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    Hi, Hayley


    Congratulations on your engagement! Well done for being so organised with all the preparations!! My fiancé and I are due to get married on 27th March 2022 and we'll be together 6 years by then. We have booked the first main things including the venue,catering, DJ and photographer. I mainly anxious about the wedding because it's still a while away and lack in confidence a bit with the whole thing. How do you manage to keep yourself so busy with the wedding planning so soon? Have you got any tips on what we can use to help with wedding anxiety?
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    Beginner April 2022 Essex
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    Hi Ana!
    I'm getting married in April 2022. I know exactly how you feel with the anxiety. What makes it worse is that our wedding venue is in Essex (where I'm from) and we live in Hampshire so with all this COVID teirs, we can't visit the venue. We've got it pencilled in and the venue are so wonderful and understanding but I'm still thinking, shall I book my registrar? What if it all goes tits up?
    Do you reckon we should book the registrar now or wait till we are eventually able to see the venue? I just don't want the registrar to get fully booked and we have to move our wedding.

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    Beginner March 2022 Central & Glasgow
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    Hi, Charlotte


    I can completely understand your frustration for not seeing your chosen wedding venue with all the travel restrictions in place. I would book a registrar if you believe that the venue is 100% what you want. I haven't booked a registrar yet, but aiming to have it done in the next couple of weeks hopefully
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  • Charlotte
    Beginner April 2022 Essex
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    Thank you Ana for your advice? x
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    Curious April 2022 Cumbria
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    Hi Hayley

    Congratulations on your engagement! Such wonderful news for you both. Your engagement ring is just stunning!

    Can I just say, I feel like we were separated at birth? Smiley xd We got engaged not too long ago and within weeks I had booked the venue, photographer, cake maker etc.. basically we sound very alike and we are also getting married in April 2022! I will also be trying to make any extra bits I can for the wedding as I love crafting.

    Lovely to meet a fellow bride, happy planning xxx

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  • Pinkcoffee22
    Dedicated April 2022 Staffordshire
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    Hi, lovely,


    Thank you so much for this message! How odd that we’re so alike and travelling such a similar path! I love this!
    And thank you so much, r.e. my ring. I’m so in love with it! ?
    How is your planning going? Xx
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    Wow, amidst all the bad experiences we've been having this year, it's always pleasant to see people getting engaged this year. Congratulations!

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