Engagement party gift?

I wouldn't get an engagement gift- just a card.

If you get a wedding invite, you'd be expected to give them a gift then.

I generally buy an engagement gift if it's someone close. That said it's not usually anything expensive. I certainly wouldn't buy another card if you already gave them one and if your friend already gave them a gift they don't need to buy another.

Engagement gifts used to be the done thing as it was the start of collecting what you needed ready for marriage and a home. Nowadays most people live together anyway. And some people like me get engaged and don't bother getting married for ten years lol.

A gift isn't required but I always take one and I think its common, more than half our guests gave something too mostly wine from friends and money from family... I think wine, champagne or prosseco are the most common physical engagement gift along with cards and/or money popular with family members, small engagement related gifts are good too though (wedding filofax, anything that say engagement etc...) but big presents aren't common I say £10 is more than enough for engagement gifts

We had an engagement party, we got lots of bottles of fizz If I was invited to one I would get them a bottle of fizz.

If your friend already got them a gift I wouldn't buy another one.

They're having a party to celebrate not to get gifts (hopefully).

Hope this helps

I loved having a shelf full of bubbly after our engagement party! Doesn't matter how much you spend, just put a big ribbon round it and enjoy celebrating with them :-)

I'd take along a bottle of fizz to an engagement party. If I had already sent a card, then I wouldn't get another one. Likewise, if I had already got them a present, I wouldn't buy another one x