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essex_charlene
Beginner September 2012

*********** essex_charlene's long overdue Wedding Report 1st September 2012 ************* flash heavy!

essex_charlene, 1 January, 2013 at 23:41 Posted on Planning 0 32

Hi all,

Apologies for the long delay. Finally got round to writing this up Smiley smile

First of all a little background on my and my hubby. We were friends through work for 3 years before he finally asked me out in Jan 2009. We moved in together March 2010, got engaged Dec 2010 and married 1st September 2012. He is the love of my life and I couldn't live without him, he has been through so much with me and I will be forever grateful he was brought into my life Smiley smile

Last day of work:

I finished work 1 week before wedding. On my last day they dressed me in a veil and sash and tied balloons to me. Was quite a talking point for my customers all day lol. We drunk Buck's Fizz and had a lovely day. Looking forward to my wedding and honeymoon. Totalling 4 weeks off work Smiley smile

Week leading up to the wedding:

Thanks to all my careful planning I had quite a chilled out week before the wedding, was just a matter of collecting suits, flowers, etc and beautifying Smiley smile

Had semi permenant eyelashes put on 3 days before the wedding and I would recommend these to anyone. They looked great on the day and last me for 6 weeks before they started falling out slowly.

2 days before the wedding I decided to check my favours (had personalised chocolates and love hearts along with some crystal butterflies) I found that the love hearts had gone funny, so I had to undo all the boxes one by one and removed the love hearts.... It took hours lol.

My brother and SIL came down this day and when they got to me I was stressing out after redoing all the favours and worrying about EVERYTHING ELSE! They were trying to calm me down telling me everything will be fine... Wish it was but I was off on one and went to bed for a sleepless night thinking about everything that could go wrong.

The day before the wedding I went down to have my nails done with all my bridesmaids which was lovely. The boys went to sort out the last of the suits. We all met up for lunch with the whole bridal party and the parents. we then went to the church for our rehearsal. That went off without a hitch and we tied all the pew ends on so it was all ready for the big day. We the left the boys after the rehersal. The boys went to our home and the girls went to the hotel. I cried leaving hubby at the church knowing that the next time I would see him I would be walking down the aisle. It was a beautiful moment and I had butterflies in my tummy. So full of love, excitement and nervousness.

Us girls went to pick up my wedding dress as it had been steamed for me. We went straight to hotel (which was also next to our reception venue) hung my dress up and cracked open a few bottles of pink fizz. The girls gave me cards and presents and made me cry again. All night I was crying, laughing and crying more with happiness. My sister did a little speech to toast me, we all ended in tears... It was beautiful about how much she looked up to me and how much she loved me.

We went to dinner, had a few more drinks whilst playing a silly game which had us in stitches. I then went off to bed about 11.30 but didn't really sleep, was waking up every couple of hours because I was so excited!

The big day:

Woke mum up at 6.30 and we had a heart to heart which was just lovely an the perfect start to my day. I went and banged on the doors of my bridesmaids (I had 6 of them!) woke them up and we had breakfast in the room with a glass of bubbles Smiley smile then my SIL (also BM) handed me a gift from my husband. It was a beautiful swasowski crystal bracelet that I had admired 2 years before! Couldn't believe he remembered it set me off crying...again! Lol.

The BM's set off about 8.15 2 at a time to the hairdresser down the road to have their hair put up. I went back to my room to shower ready for my hair and make up lady to arrive and work her magic Smiley smile

My wedding perfume was jimmy choo and it is beautiful. I got the matching shower gel and moisturiser, which I'm please with as everyone mentioned on the day how lovely I smelled Smiley smile

i then put my bride satin dressing gown on and then my hair and make up lady arrived. She started doing my hair and I was calm and happily chatting away kind of ignoring what was happening that day. Then I started getting all my texts and messages wishing me luck and all of a sudden I felt sick with nerves! I looked out the window and the sky was cloudy Smiley sad where is the sun I kept saying! Then arrived a huge bouquet of flowers from my hubby with a beautiful card saying how much he loves me and can't wait to meet me at the alter xxx

She did my airbrush make up and I was really happy with everything she did which was fab as I had a few wobbles and changed my hair style and make up style three times lol!

When she left I went to the other rooms to checked how the BM's and my mum was doing, they all had their hair up and were finishing their make up and they looked gorgeous. They started putting their dresses on when I heard someone knock on the door. It was my photographer. She was so lovely and was so complimentary of how we all looked. She out all my nerves to one side and started taking photos of us all. Then it was time to get in the dress. Had my two sisters help me into my dress while mum looked on in tears bless her. That set me off again. I joked that they had to stop making me cry I've paid loads for my make up! Lol. Then everything started to get very real. After having my bridal shots done the cars were here! Eeeekkkk. Another load of butterflies in my belly. My brother came in to see me (he was giving me away) and there were more tears after he told me he proud he was to be doing this honour.

We went to the cars and we were 10 mins early so the BMs car set off with my mum and me and my brother got some fresh air outside having a heart to heart and him telling me not to be nervous, he had seen my hubby and he was in great spirits not nervous or anything and that somehow settled me a lot. We took the 5 minute drive to the church and I was struggling to hold back the tears.

I arrive at the church to see the sun come out! It was beautiful. the vicar comes to greet me as I get out of the car. She asked me if I was ok and told me everything was ready and we were going straight in. Eeeeeek!

my BMs where all lined up behind the choir ready. I had given the church a cd with my entrance song in secret (hubby thought we were having the wedding march!) the song was the acoustic version of Emilie sande's next to me. It's a beautiful song if you get the chance to check it out.

I hear the song start from outside the church and the choir entered. My BMs followed and we hung back just a tad so all the BMs were in their seats before I entered the church. I have tears in my eyes so much so that I can't see where I am walking.... I walk in and don't see anyone until I turn the corner and see my hubby standing there looking up at me with tears in his eyes. That was it. I was in pieces......

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    Wow. Sounds absolutely magical!!!! Xx

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    The song is still playing when I reach the alter and I hold my hubby's hand. He tells me he loves me and how beautiful I look. I told him he looked so handsome and thank you for my gift and flowers. I brought him a watch which he was wearing and told me he loved it Smiley smile

    The music fades out and the ceremony starts. We said our vows and it was just beautiful. We exchanged rings and then our first kiss as husband and wife Smiley smile We then went up to sign the register followed by our witnesses, my brother and FOG. Everyone started laughing in the church and we turn around to find the witnesses walking up arm in arm doing a funny walk. It really made the service fun and lovely. Everyone said how much they enjoyed it and a lot of them said they didn't like church services in general but our one was really lovely Smiley smile

    We walked back up the aisle as husband and wife and it was the best feeling in the world! As we got to the exit our videographer who was walking backwards fell over a big stone thing on the floor and ended up on her bum. She got straight up and laughed it off. No one saw her except for us but she said she was really embarressed bless her...

    We had lots of photos outside the church speaking to our guests and i was being given horseshoes, rolling pins etc to put around my wrist. We then went off quickly to have some photos just us two and afterwards had the usual photos done and the great confetti throwing shot I loved that!

    The cars where there and people started making their way to the reception venue. We had a lovely journey in the car to the venue very relaxed and it was the first time we had on our own to talk and take in what had happened. It was lovely.

    We arrived at the venue to our ice cream truck Smiley smile people were already enjoying the ice cream we had laid on and it was needed as it had got quite warm by then and the sun was still out! Hurrrahhhh!

    Greeted by our amazing toastmaster (who had also been at the church) with two glasses of bubbles Smiley smile we went off yet again whilst our guests enjoyed their ice cream and reception drinks to have photos taken in the garden. We came back and had photos with the ice cream truck and scoffed down a yummy 99' we had a fab shot of hubby in the truck through the window serving me lol.

    A group photo was taken outside the venue with everyone and the ice cream truck in the background.

    The toastmaster arranged the receiving line into the venue and we greeted all our guests into the wedding breakfast. The venue looked amazing the team I had go in and decorate made it look beautiful and I was so so chuffed how everything came together Smiley smile

    My favourite part was being announced into room of our loved ones as Mr and Mrs R for the first time.

    Food was amazing. We had a singer and Keyboard player throughout the meal who was absolutely superb!

    Speeches were great. I did the first one which noone knew I was doing. Made my mum cry telling her how much I loved her and thank you for bringing us as I know it wasn't easy bringing 5 of us up on her own Smiley sad set everyone off crying. Was a lovely moment.

    Hubbys speech was perfect, just the right amount of humour and loveliness Smiley smile my brother and the best man did brilliantly and a lot of people said they have never laughed so much and enjoyed every speech at a wedding before which was great.

    Before we knew it it was time to go over to the bar for drinks and greet our evening guests whilst they turned the room around. We had a great time chatting with everyone and having a few drinks before going in to the evening reception.

    When had given all our guests drinks tokens and it turned out that we didn't run out of money behind bar so no one paid for a drink all day or night! We actually had £4.50 left at the end of it... Lol.... Couldn't do that again if we tried!

    The toastmaster introduced himself to everyone in the room and explained that the groom would be performing a party piece.... The art of sabrage. (Basically popping the cork off a bottle of champagne with a sword). He told hubby how to do it and got the room to countdown 5,4,3,2,1 and he did it perfectly! To massive applause!

    It was time to cut our cake which hubby's sister made. Yummy! 1 layer fruit, 1 chocolate and 1 vanilla Smiley smile

    We were then announced for our first dance.... What everyone didn't know was that me and hubby had dance lessons for 8 weeks before the wedding and were taught a choreographed dance to beyonces version of at last. Another beautiful song. We did the dance perfectly and wowed everyone! Mum was in tears bless her.

    After the dance we went to our chocolate fountain for the first taste Smiley smile lovely lovely! We also had a candy Buffett. Both went down a treat!

    I had created bathroom baskets for the toilets in the men and women's with mints plasters, hair brush, spray, deodorant etc. I also had a flip flip basket for the women.. all went down really well and none of my guests had seen these done before which was great!

    i finally let my hair down and started boogying on the dance floor. I don't think I left the dance floor at all, it was packed all night everyone having a fab time! I then threw the bouquet (it was actually a BM bouquet but nobody noticed! I wanted to keep mine!) the DJ counted it down with the whole room joining in.

    All too soon it was time to end the evening Smiley sad so many people were still standing when the lights came on and we chatted with guests for about an hour after before finally retiring to the honeymoon suite Smiley smile

    Hubby carried me over the threshold and we had a soak in our jacuzzi bath with some vintage Moët Smiley smile then we made the marriage official Smiley winking whats funny is that in the Morning we realised that when we went in our room hubby put key in door, carried me over threshold and then closed the door with the key in it! Anyone could have walked in at any moment oh dear!

    We had breakfast with all the family that stayed over and said our goodbyes. We went home finished honeymoon packing opened our cards and presents. Our friends and family were so generous we were so touched. Couple of hours later we were picked up by friends and taken to an olly murs concert Smiley smile I love him so much and dragged hubby along the day after our wedding, on the way to the airport to our honeymoon . That's love Smiley smile lol.

    A fab honeymoon to KL and Bali followed with memories that will last a lifetime!

    photos to follow xxxx

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  • essex_charlene
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    Apologies if these are big. I'm not used to flashing

    morning Smiley smile

    present from my BM


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    Church

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    can you spot the crazy uncle lol xxx

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    the reception venue

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    Confetti cannon

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    Well that's it. I hope you enjoyed Smiley smile it really was the best day of my life! If you need any suggestions on suppliers in Essex please just ask Smiley smile

    And they lived happily ever after.........

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  • essex_charlene
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    Oh yeah.... Just one more thing.....

    I'm currently 5 weeks pregnant Smiley smile couldn't be happier. Xxxx

    My fairy tale continues xxxxx

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    This is one of my favourite reports. Your day sounded amazing, all the best for married life ..and Congratulations on your pregnancy.

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  • essex_charlene
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    Thats so sweet of you! Thank you so much. It really was the day of my dreams Smiley smile very happy xxxxx

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  • *gnashers*
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    This is lovely and congrats on the pregnancy ?

    Make sure you enter yourself into the Hitched Awards!

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    Thanks so much! I will do Smiley smile xxx

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    Looks like a beautiful day- Congratulations! Very exciting about your baby news too. x

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    Ahhh thanks so much guys Smiley smile

    The reception was held at The Chichester in Essex. Xxx

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    Congratulations to you both. You looked beautiful.

    Also massive congratulations on your fab news! I bet you are overjoyed.

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  • Purple*Sparkles
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    This is a great report, it's the first one where I have had to hold back the tears!!!! Grest news about the pregnancy, many congratulations! You looked lovely in your photos. x

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  • *BigBird*
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    Wow! Congratulations.

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  • essex_charlene
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    You are all so lovely! Thanks so much xxxxx

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  • <3FutureMrsN<3
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    I actually cried at several points of this... Congratulations it all looked so wonderful and congratulations on the baby as well!!!!

    Can I just ask, I'm from Essex as well. Which church did you get married at?

    Congrats again and well done on describing it so well that you managed to make me cry! xx Smiley heart

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  • essex_charlene
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    Ahhhh Hun that's so sweet of you to say Smiley smile

    I live in Wickford. We got married at st Catherine's on the Southend road in Wickford xxx

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  • <3FutureMrsN<3
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    No wonder it looks familiar. Passed that church many times!!! ? Tis a beautiful church!!!

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  • *RisqueM*
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    Lovely! and congratulations on your pregnancy! x

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  • essex_charlene
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    Thanks ladies xxxx

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  • Kjay
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    Massive double congratulations!

    :-) Wishing you all the best for married and family life x

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    I have to say ladies that you are the lovliest women ever Smiley smile thanks so much xxx

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