Evening invitation wording

Anyone?

We received an evening invite for a friends wedding last year and how they did this was to put that part on a separate information sheet with a little map attached. I think their wording was along the lines of sorry that we are unable to include you within the all day celebration of our marriage but should you wish to see XXX & XXX tie the knot then please feel free to come to the church at XXX.

Don't sound great as I can't remember word for word but maybe something along them lines x

Weve put something like:

Me

and

Him

request the pleasure of your company at the evening reception following their marriage at XXXXX

7pm til Late

RSVP blah blah blah

ps - Thorpness Country Club is just up the rd from me ?

Thanks. I hadn't thought of putting it in the extra information sheet. I know there are some people who may want to come to the church. For example H2B's cousins who we haven't got space for at the WB. At christmas I saw my Uncle and he said that his mother and father-in-law are pleased we are getting married in a church because it means they can attend the ceremony. So they've booked a week's holiday in Southwold so that they can come. We hadn't even thought of inviting them but I supose we should send them an evening invitation. Fortunately the church is quite big so there should be enough room, although it might be a bit of a squeeze if all 200 people turn up at the church

I thought that if I put you are invited to the church at such and such a time and then the evening reception it might not be obvious that they aren't invited to the whole day and we don't want there to be any confusion with that.

And I think you are just the week before us too? Where is your wedding?

May 26th at Belsted Brook in Ipswich!