Me and my OH are getting married in Cyprus next May and have only invited close family and friends to the wedding abroad. We're planning on having an evening reception for everyone else a few weeks upon our return. We will be sending out invites to the evening reception but we're unsure as to how to word them. Some people who aren't coming to the actual wedding have already asked what will be on our gift list but the thing is we've lived together for 4 years so already have everything we need. Ideally we would like a honeymoon as such without all our family there but will people think its wrong for us to ask for holiday vouchers/money to go away again? And how would you word this request?
Any suggestions/thoughts would be gratefully received!