Hello ladies, I'm new here and desperate for help!
To give you some background;
My h2b and I out of the blue decided to book our wedding abroad a couple of weeks ago. We booked it, then promptly told the whole family (both sides). We explained that we were not going to have any family/friends present, because tbh we selfishly don't want to have to worry about anyone else - it's our day afterall! So the plan is to have a big party a week or so after we get back which will be the equivalent of the evening do had we got married here. Therein lies the problem.
We have very distinct ideas of what we want, and nowhere seems to be able to accomodate us or even offer a compromise. We need somewhere to hold around 200 people and have space for dancing/disco. Everywhere we've tried will not hire us the room without us taking a catering package - which we most certainly do not want. Please can anyone suggest a venue that will be happy for 200 people to spending all night at the bar without wanting to put a crappy buffet on? Is it so much to ask for??