Wondered if anyone could offer any advice.
My better half’s aunt and cousin live in New Zealand and are flying over to our wedding. BH cousin has had a baby in Oct 24. Important info we also had a baby Dec 24. Since the start of our planning we have made it clear that unless invited and clearly specified, no children to be part of our day. Venue rules and don’t want children running around at the evening reception. Other family members (other cousin and my sister) have understood and arranged for their children to be picked up. We are also having our own baby picked up before the meal. However, aunt and cousin are demanding that their child is made an exception. Now telling us that they will put baby in a room at venue to be looked after. This has gone round in circles 5 times and we are now being told to accommodate despite holding ground. BH MOH also has a baby of similar age and will likely kick off if cousins baby is found to be at venue when we’ve told her that she can’t bring her baby.
Has anyone encountered similar?