So ive been looking at my wedding invite list - just to give me ideas on numbers since i added some and took some away... theres a stpory here
at christmas my paternal grandfather had a little "speech" for me about how he "had thoughts" on my wedding, told me my fiancee was horrible and didnt like him (even though he has made NO effort to get to know him in nine years together) anyway ended up teeling me he wished that i had died instead of his wife who died a few years ago and basically ruined christmas. I stormed out, told him i never wanted to see him again - my fiancee, mother, grandmother and great aunt followed. i decided i did not want this man at my wedding - or in any part of my life
the thing is that now i feel like i cant invite his brother, or my dads brother and his wife because there will be too much tension about it.
its making me sad because i feel like im losing half of my family, but i really don't want him at my wedding. He doesnt exist to me any more (this has been a long time coming in a very turbulent relationship between us for as long as i can remember)
has anyone else been through this?
