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Feeling disconnected from the wedding

Gracef, 6 October, 2022 at 12:49 Posted on Planning 0 1

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Hi all,

I just wanted to get my thoughts out to be honest and wasn’t sure who else would understand.
We are getting married in June 23, everything major is booked and I have my dress. I’m just feeling a bit disconnected for the first time. All my mind has been on for the last (easily 6 months) if not more has been the wedding and the planning. I feel I’m at a bit of a lull now as a lot of things that are still left to be done really need to be closer to the time. I don’t want to say I’m down that’s a bit far but I just feel weird.
Not sure what I want from this other than to get it out. I think I just want to be more excited than I am and for me excitement comes with planning and I’ve nothing else I can really do! X

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Latest activity by Sarah, 6 October, 2022 at 15:34

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Sarah · 6 October, 2022 at 15:34
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I completely get where you are coming from, we got engaged July 2021 and getting married September 23. We planned and booked everything within a few months so had a low in wedding planning. It had become all I thought about and talked about with friends and family. In April when people tried to talk to me about the wedding I’d shut the conversation off as there was nothing to talk about. I have since started getting little bits for bridesmaid boxes and groomsmen gifts and little bits like my bridal jewellery and the guest book which I have found has helped with being excited for the wedding and also stumbled across other ideas whilst looking.
I have also found that planning my our hen do and our honeymoon gives me something else to get excited about. Also the other thing that is keeping my mind busy and taking it off the wedding in a good way is planning a pre wedding BBQ with our whole wedding party so everyone gets to know each other before the day.
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