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memedoaky
Beginner September 2008

FINALLY MY WEDDING REPORT 06/09 WITH PICS

memedoaky, 2 October, 2008 at 16:26 Posted on Planning 0 21

Well its taken me a wee while but finally its here!!

My photobox link is at the end, which fingers crossed should show you a selection of pics from the day taken by my sister!!

I'm still waiting on the togs link but I'll post that when I get it!!

So here it goes!!!

We left Nothern Ireland at 7am on Monday 1st Sept and got the ferry to Stranraer then drove the 2hrs to my parents house in Paisley!!

On arrival I showed off bits and bobs that we bought and my mum showed me my cake topper etc etc!! We had an appointment later on that day with the videographer to give him pictures, music and a general run through of timings etc. It was Stephen's first time meeting with him as I went on a trip to visit my mum one weekend and without Stephen when we booked them so it was good to get them to meet!! Stephen was very pleased with them so all was well!!

Later on that evening as we were getting ready to go out shopping we recieved a phone call from Stephen's dad - the hotel that all our guests had booked into (because it was across the road from the reception venue) had called one of his aunts to advise they had over booked by 15 rooms and therefore could not accommodate our party!! So we headed down to the hotel to try and sort out the mess as the majority of rooms had been booked since January. It got sorted and they assured us that we would get the 21 rooms booked!

Tuesday 2nd was a very uneventful day - we went into town and picked up our marriage schedule and I went to try my dress on, all was perfect so it was left at the shop to be steam cleaned.

Wednesday 3rd - Another normal stress free day (not) - Stephen went to collect the kilts and pay the balance of his, Kyle fell over in the shop whacking his face off the side of a glass table and gave himself a black eye!!!!! We had our rehersal, which was fun, our minister was perfect for us and enjoued a good laugh and joke!! We left the rehersal and went shopping as the table decordation idea didn't pan out so we needed something else - luckily Ikea Braehead came to the rescue!!

Thursday 4th - Well until midday all was fine, at 12.15 the reservation manager from the hotel called to say they couldn't accommodate all of our party after all!!!!!!!! The annoying factor was they waited until after the cut off time for cancellations (midday) so said that those who were being accommodated could not cancel their rooms as they'd be charged full price for the whole stay!! I went back down and fought with the hotel reservations manager. When I arrived I asked for her and was told that she was in a meeting and I couldn't talk to her so I told the receptionist to cancel all the rooms, low and behold the manager came out of the back office!! Some meeting!! Well my degree in Tourism came in very handy, especially my course in tourism law as she tried to explain that it happens to ensure the hotel is not empty so I was able to come back with what I'd been taught during my studies and also from experience in working in the industry!! She quickly got the message that she'd picked the wrong bride to mess with!!

She said that they would pay for taxi's for the guests who weren't staying at the hotel to get back up to the hotel to get the coach that we had booked to collect them all to take them to the church!! The alternative hotel was in the middle of an industrial estate and had no restaurant facilities so it was a no no!

At 4pm she called back to say a group had called and mysteriuosly(sp) cancelled their rooms and they could accommodate all of our party after all - I found this very very strange but they were in so I didn't really care!

Friday 5th - All of Northern Irish and Canadian guests were arriving today in drips and drabs so we were constantly getting calls and messages to say they'd arrived etc etc! We went down to the hotel for our dinner that night and met with all our guests. I complained to the general manager about the reservation manager attitide and blatant lies so they gave us free house wine! That kept Stephen's aunties happy!!

Saturday 6th - Our Big Day!!!

I woke at 7.30 - I'd shared a double bed with my 5 & 6 year old neices so I didn't really sleep - I could hear water running - so I thought it was raining and by the sounds of things raining hard!! Well no it was my dad in the shower!!! I got up and into the kitchen and sat with my mum and read the paper then my morning sickness kicked in - after I'd got over that my dad made me rolls and square slice & rolls and bacon.

The hairdresser arrived at 9.30 and started on the children, my dad took stuff to our recption venue and collected the 2 best men, FOG & MOG - the boys were dropped off at my sisters house and MOG came to my parents to get ready.

A deliver came at 10am for me, that was a single red rose, a teddy, a balloon and swarovski crystal jewellery (necklace, earrings and bracelet) from Stephen with a note saying "see you at 2 love Stephen xxx".

The videographer arrived at 1pm and did some shots etc - the cars were late - 1st car was supposed to arrive at 1.30 and my car was to arrive at 1.40 but the 2 cars both came at 1.50 as they'd got lost!

Mum, FG, MOG, BM & Kyle left in the first car and we waited 5 mins and left in the 2nd car. The weather was dry but a little windy - nothing to worry about! We arrived at the church and the piper and drummer started playing - they were fabulous and dressed in full regimental no1!!

I stood at the doors and watched through the stained glass as Stephen ect walked out from the vestry and the minister told him not to turn around. The organ started playing Cachabel's Canon in D and the church officer opened the doors. So we walked dad and I went first to set the pace for the children, the 2 girls and kyle followed me then my sister followed them (to keep them moving and to ensure they didn't stand on my dress!!)

The chuch service passed in a flash - no sooner had I walked down the aisle than we were heading back up and out the church to get our pics done!

The whole day went on time apart from the cars!! Even tough they were late it didn't put the timings off at all! The meal was fab all 5 cousres and the DJ was something else!! He was a 70's style DJ complete with afro wig, white Saturday Night Fever Jump suit and gold medallion!! He was so funny and had the guest laughing all night so everyone loved him!!

We left at 12am even though we both wanted to stay til 1am but the car had been booked to come back for us 12 so we left and went back to my parents house as they were going to a hotel and we needed to get organised for our honeymoon!

N&P's

Catereing - Top Class for the meals, drinks, cars, cake, buffet, entertainment and staff

Venues - Thomas Coats Memorial Church, Paisley and Paisley Town Hall. Especially Rev I.D Ralph

Photography - Art Image, Paisley

Videography - Memories, Erskine

Flowers - Celebrations by Just Devine, Paisley

Dresses - Juliette's, Paisley

Alterations - Napier's, Paisley

Kilts - Kilts 4 U, Hillington (both for hire and bought)

Hair & Make Up - Ruth Chalk of Beautiful You, Paisley

Piper & Drummer - Strictly Piping (thanks to debs, braw wee chanter, for the recommendation)

Tiara's - Aliya Rose, Cupar (thanks girls for all your advice)

My Shoes - Hitched for sale board!! BNIBWT - £30!! RRP £90

Veil - Internet bargain again - January Sales - the wedding veil shop

Thank you also to all hitchers for your support, advice and for keeping me sane for the past year and half!!

Ok so here are the pics - my sister the BM took these -

http://www.photobox.co.uk/my/album?album_id=71058151

Lots of Luv

Mr & Mrs Doak!!!

xxx

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Latest activity by donnaj36, 3 October, 2008 at 19:48
  • memedoaky
    Beginner September 2008
    memedoaky ·
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    OMG Beth how fast were you!!!

    Glad you liked them!!

    Can't wait for yours!

    Luv Victoria

    xx

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  • Burke 2 be
    Beginner October 2009
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    Congratulations Memedoaky you looked lovely glad you had a fab day

    kelly x

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  • teeheeyoucrazyguys!
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    Oah ma goad. Check you mrs! you look gorgeous, everyone looks wonderful and how angelic are the girls and i'm sorry but kyle is such a heartbreaker. I have never known there to be such a small kilt outfit!!!

    lovely report too, cant believe your venue, bloomin cheek!! congrats again. x

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  • M
    Beginner March 2009
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    Lovely report and beautiful pics! Your dress is a stunner!

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  • Stupidgirl45
    Beginner July 2009
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    Awwww you all look lovely :-) And good for you standing up to the venue - the nerve of them, the reservations mger must never have been married or she wouldn't have put you through that stress!

    x

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  • memedoaky
    Beginner September 2008
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    Thanks for all your kind responses!!

    Nona - I know he's a heart breaker - he's just like his daddy!! His daddy was a heartbreaker when he was younger, but only cos he was too clueless to all the girls staring at him and flirting with him!! He honestly thought that I was the first girl fancied him!! He only noticed me staring at him across the pool cos he was staring at me!!

    I really had a fantastic day and love watching my DVD!! Its true what they say the day goes by so quickly and I was so calm!!

    When the DVD guy arrived at my mum's house he asked my how I felt and I said "it feels just like any other day" - I seriously was so calm! It was like an outer body experience! The DVD people said they've never met two people so calm and laid back!!

    Thanks again - I'm glad you all enjoyed the report!

    The PIL are coming round with a chinese to watch the wedding DVD for the first time!!

    Luv always

    Victoria

    xx

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  • Spamboule
    Beginner October 2008
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    Fab wedding report meme - well done for dealing with all your hotel issues.

    The pics look good too - it was worth the wait

    xx

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  • B
    Beginner September 2008
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    Wow, great dress! You all look lovely! It all goes by so quickly, doesn't it, but I hope you enjoyed your day.

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  • loobyg
    Beginner November 2008
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    You look stunning, and as for kyle: soooo kyoooooooot!! glad you had a fab day

    L x

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  • debbydoo
    Beginner May 2009
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    WEES, beautiful pictures and the cutest son ever!! Congratulations x

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  • bluewater
    Beginner August 2009
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    What fab photos - you looked amazing. your FGs and your son are adorable! and a big BOO to your venue - too right they picked on the wrong bride! x

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  • Braw Wee Chanter
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    Waaaaah, check out Kyle! He looks absolutely brilliant ?

    You all do!

    Glad you had such a fab day, sorry I didn't make the reception, Andy was working and we were going on hols the next day so mayhem is not the word!

    Next time you guys are over visiting, give me a shout.

    xxx

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  • tahdah
    Beginner September 2009
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    Sounds like it was very eventful...stupid hotel though.

    You look gorgeous!

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    Beginner October 2008
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    Congratulations honey , u all look stunning , and looks like you had a fab day, kyle is soooooo cute tooo xx

    Vicks xxx

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  • Braw Wee Chanter
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    What hotel was it? The W-ML? By the river?

    x

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  • memedoaky
    Beginner September 2008
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    Spot on BWC!!

    As all my family have been born and bred in Paisley we've never used any hotels in the area nor do we know anyone who has so we were not aware that they were a crappy hotel with shyte service especially customer service!!

    As I said in my report the only reason we picked them was because its is right across from the Town Hall and would save our guests a taxi fare not to mention the hassle of getting one at 1am!! I wouldn't recommend them to my worst emeny!! Thankfully hardly any of the guests new the hassle we had with them in the run up to their arrival!!

    On the subject of enemies ? the BIL fiancee came to the wedding claiming to be ill (hungover after downing a few to many pints on the friday night, to which all the Canadian & Northern Irish guests were witness too) so no-one took her on to their notice, which didn't please - especially as PIL never spoke to her all day (well lets be honest they were co-hosting their eldest son's wedding so were a little pre-occupied to be falling for her nonsense). So as she never got any attention from anyone (well her fiance was BM so he was busy too) she sat in the very last row of the church and never stood for us coming down the aisle, the hymns or Stephen & I leaving the church (though my disabled mum, disabled aunt and our grans who are both over 80 managed to do it) its very clear on the DVD her face is tripping her all day. She didn't try to cause a fuss, but we reckon she'd been well warned by BIL. She told my sister the meal was lovely and enjoyed all five courses - yet told PIL & BIL she didn't eat anything as she didn't like any of the food!! So they asked the people she was sat with (some friends of theirs and some of my cousins) and they all said she ate everything that was put in front of her so I'm not sure what she was trying to do there!!

    In all we had a great day and now we're on the countdown to baby no2 coming in March - We've a wedding to go to in Feb so gos knows what kind of outfit I'll get for it - I'll hit the maternity sections in the January sales in the hope of getting something from their christmas dress section reduced!!!

    Luv Victoria

    xx

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  • Braw Wee Chanter
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    Given that they charge mourners to park in their car park when they are paying to have a wake in the hotel, I'm not the least bit surprised!

    They told a client once that the reception space was big enough for a 5 piece band, so she booked us and paid a deposit. When I popped in to get a look at the space a few weeks before the date, they said there was no way you'd fit a 5 piece in there! Luckily for her we were understanding enough to give her the deposit back as it was too late to change the venue.

    Glad you saw the best side of everything though and didn't let it interfere with the wedding.

    What a loon your (future)SIL is! ? She really has shown herself up now though hasn't she?!

    I've seen some really lovely maternity ranges recently. You could try and predict your Feb size and buy a couple of glitzy dresses in the Christmas ranges.

    Try: H&M (Mama bebe), Topshop, Dorothy P, Warehouse, Next, New Look, Red Herring (@ Debenhams).

    xxx

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  • Diamond Star Halo
    Beginner October 2004
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    Congratulations memedoaky. You all looked gorgeous.

    Can I ask a favour? Would you mind emailing over a couple of pics of you and the girls in your tiaras? I'm in the middle of putting together a scrapbook of 'our brides' - mostly it's our brides in our dresses, but it's lovely to have some real life accessory pics too! Only if you don't mind the pics being in a display book in the shop, of course....

    Liz xx

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  • memedoaky
    Beginner September 2008
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    Hi Liz,

    Yeah no problem - I've got a few good ones I could send over!!

    What address would you like me to send them to??

    Luv Victoria

    xxx

    BWC - They are a shyte hotel woth really crappy service!! As for the SIL well we got the impression there had been words between her & PIL as they never spoke all weekend - PIL never even looked at her!!! Not sure what went on there but she showed her true colours to them last year when we were away for S gran's 80th birthday but now everyone else in the family must think she's a twit!!

    Its her wedding we're going to in Feb (maybe I'll be ill that day as I'll be like 30 something weeks ?) and I saw a lovely dress on New Look's website so I'll keep my eyes peeled, thanks for the list of other stockists as well gives me more of a choice!! S was sitting across from her when we announced it to the family that I was pregnant (I couldn't see her - well not that I'd want to either) but a few people have commented on her the expression on her face when he said we were having a baby in March, everyone else in the room congratulated us etc etc she sat there with a face like thunder and said nothing!! - We've been told (by a reliable source) that she's telling her family we've stolen her wedding thunder! (WTF!!!) as I'll be nearly due so all the attention will be on me and not on her!!! Obviously me being the limelight grabber that I am I planned it down to a tea to be due near her wedding!! - their wedding is 14th Feb I'm due 29th March. I think she needs therapy!! Oh well you can choose your friends but you can't pick your BIL future wife even if she is a nutter!!?

    Luv Victoria

    xx

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    Congrats! lovely photos, you look beautiful. lovely report too!

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