Just a bit of a rant to be honest.
Firstly, on my hen do 2/3 weeks ago I ended up falling out with one of my best friends of 13 years and we haven't spoken since and i've made the decision to cut her and her two daughters from my wedding [and my life] so I lost a bridesmaid and my two flower girls.
Now the best man has text us to say that he isn't in a mentally fit state to be there for my partner at the minute and doesn't want to be involved in the wedding. We've asked another of his close friends to step in and he's said yes thankfully but we're both a little upset at the first guy dropping out and worried about him as he's a very closed person and doesn't discuss things when he's hurting. Their still friends, no fall out - just now very anxious about friend and hope he's okay.
Luckily we're only doing suit shopping in two weeks so that's still going to be okay ... but it's going to be fun finding a suit to fit the new 6ft 8" tall huge beast of a best man.
What is it about weddings and growing as a person and moving forward etc. that seems to throw everything up in the air :'(
