So it seems the common thing is to put your BMs (and yourself!) in heeled shoes! My BMs, like me, aren’t really “heel” girls and much prefer our flats. (I can cope with heels until a point though so I am having heels until the evening starts then swapping to ivory flats).
However, all my BMs have said to me on separate occasions when discussing shoes “you know I’ll be taking them off after the ceremony right?”. I have them said “erm, after the meal you mean, 6pm is shoes off time!”. They’ve all agreed but it’s got me to thinking… what is they just wear “really nice” flats from the off?
The dresses will be a-line tea dress just below knee length (the one I have chosen atm is such as that, so even if these don’t work out, it’d be the style I opt for) which I think would work quite well with flats anyway. Wouldn’t they? I’m not sure how it’d look on photos, I don’t want it to appear TOO casual but quite like the “more relaxed” approach AND want them to feel comfy ALL day. this is the dress - http://www.bhs.co.uk/en/bhuk/product/wedding-1020484/adult-bridesmaids-1020513/bridesmaid-dresses-1020862/rose-ballet-pink-short-dress-2536507?refinements=category~%5b471576%7c471150%5d&bi=21&ps=20
Has anyone / is anyone putting BMs in flat? Do we have any examples of that looking good?
Shortest is 5” 2, I’m 5”4 (with no larger than 2 inch heels), 2 are 5”3, and the taller one is 5”6 – so we’re all around similar height anyway.