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Clare
Curious May 2025 Hampshire

Flat shoes with tea length dress?

Clare, 25 August, 2024 at 14:54 Posted on Wedding Attire 1 25
Hi all,
I’ve got a tea length dress meaning my shoes can be seen, I’d love a really quirky pair of shoes but I don’t usually wear heels and don’t want to spend my wedding day with painful feet! I know that flats would be the best choice but I don’t know if they’ll look weird with a tea length dress - did anyone on here wear flats with this length of dress and be willing to share a photo?

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Latest activity by James, 24 November, 2024 at 17:57
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    VIP July 2020 Monmouthshire
    RomanticGreenStationery27135 ·
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    'Weirdness' is in the eye of the beholder.

    Some people are so wedded to the idea of heels at weddings that they are automatically going to think anyone who doesn't wear heels is odd - that's their problem, not yours.

    Flats are 'you' - and they are also much better for your general health since they're not throwing your body out of alignment the way heels do. Your wedding and your feet - you wear what you want.

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  • Clare
    Curious May 2025 Hampshire
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    Thank you - you’re absolutely right! I’m now on a mission to find some absolutely fabulous flat shoes- just because they won’t be heeled doesn’t mean they can be special!
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    Let us know what you find!

    I wore flats (with a long dress) for my wedding - I felt like 'me', I didn't have backache from wearing heels and they also have long-term wearability rather than being for just one day.

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  • Helen
    Beginner July 2026 Cornwall
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    Go for mid heel sandals. They’re so comfy, and you feel sexy in heels.
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    OP has already stated she finds heels painful, so I think her views should be respected. And it is totally possible to look and feel great in flats.

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  • PhotographybyBillHaddon
    Super January 3000 Leicestershire
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    Have a look at irregular choice shoes they are really eye-catching and will fit your quirky requirement 100% and the ones I have seen are never very high heels.

    And no matter what size heel you have you do not have to keep them on all day - quite often I see my brides change into something more comfortable during the wedding breakfast and evening dancing.

    If you want to keep it totally flat but also quirky then you can dye satin shoes quite successfully whatever colour you like for some eye-catching quirky colours.

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  • Helen
    Beginner July 2026 Cornwall
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    That was respectful
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  • Sie
    Curious November 2025 Essex
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    I'm a heel lover but lm having white bridal trainers for the reception.
    Our first dance is a jive, l cant to that in a wedding dress and heels..🤣
    Irregular choice do some lovely glittery flat shoes and trainers
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  • Hannah
    Curious September 2025 Durham
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    Maybe try a flat with an open toe as it might be more 'flattering'? Or, white trainers could be super cute as well if you're having a more relaxed wedding!

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  • Clare
    Curious May 2025 Hampshire
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    Thanks everyone - I appreciate the comments and advice and if anyone on here did wear a tea length dress with flats if any kind, would be great to see a photo so I can visualise what it would look like, my wedding isn’t until May next year so plenty of time Smiley smile
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  • Laura-Lou
    Beginner April 2026 Staffordshire
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    Irregular choice have a fab selection of flat and medium height heel! But comfort it key, break in with socks around the house x
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    East Central London
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    "Absolutely! Flat shoes are a great choice with a tea-length dress—they keep it stylish and comfortable. Perfect for staying chic without sacrificing comfort at event.

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  • Shree
    Curious March 2019 Karnataka
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    Flat shoes paired with a tea-length dress offer a stylish and comfortable alternative to heels. This combination is ideal for both casual and semi-formal events, providing a chic yet practical look. Flat shoes, such as ballet flats or loafers, complement the dress's mid-calf length, creating a balanced silhouette without compromising on comfort. This pairing is especially suitable for daytime events, outdoor gatherings, or when prolonged standing or walking is required, combining elegance with ease.

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    Beginner June 2025 Tamil Nadu
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    Best Tailoring institute in Thanjavur is Veni Creation.
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  • Beth
    Bristol
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    How are you doing
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  • Shree
    Curious March 2019 Karnataka
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    The forum thread on Hitched discusses the stylish pairing of flat shoes with a tea-length wedding dress. Brides and participants share advice on choosing flats that complement the dress’s vintage, elegant look while ensuring comfort throughout the day. The conversation includes suggestions on materials, colors, and designs like ballet flats or embellished shoes to enhance the bridal outfit without sacrificing style. It's a helpful discussion for brides who want to combine comfort and chic fashion for their special day.

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  • Rachel
    Beginner November 2025 Greater Manchester
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    Vivienne Westwoods. I also had a tea length. I had heels for day and night changed into the same shoe just a flat version! XxFlat shoes with tea length dress? 1

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  • Rachel
    Beginner November 2025 Greater Manchester
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    Flats on my wedding day xxFlat shoes with tea length dress? 2

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  • Nicole
    Beginner October 2024 Cumbria
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    I had bespoke flats made by Diane Hassall. They are beautiful and I highly recommend. I equally didn’t want to be uncomfortable.
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  • Clare
    Curious May 2025 Hampshire
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    These are really lovely - thanks for sharing!
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  • Clare
    Curious May 2025 Hampshire
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    Thank you - irregular choice were my first thought, sadly one size is too small and the next size up too big so I’ve had to rule them out but they’d definitely fulfill the quirky requirement!
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  • Clare
    Curious May 2025 Hampshire
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    Thank you I’ll have a Google sounds interesting! Definitely want to be comfortable!
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  • Nicole
    Beginner October 2024 Cumbria
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    Woman is an artist with a shoe! The insides are very soft. She sent me the sizes to try on in different shoes before they were made to ensure the fit and height was what I wanted x



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    Beginner September 2025 Bristol
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    Might be worth having a look at Ruby Shoo, Joe Browns or Rocket Dog, they do some quirky/retro flat designs.
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  • Muhammad
    Beginner December 2003 East Central London
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    Absolutely, you can rock flats with a tea-length dress! Many brides choose stylish flats for comfort, and they can look super chic. Consider embellished or colorful options to add some flair. You might find plenty of inspiration on wedding forums or social media!

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