Last year one of my close friends announced her engagement. I’m not a bridesmaid but never the less she is a very close friend. It was quickly planned by her sister (MOH) that her hen party was going to be abroad in Cyprus. It’s slightly out of my budget but not wanting to let her down I agreed and took on extra shifts in work etc to make sure I had the funds to go. Fast forward to this year I’ve found out that two of her bridesmaids aren’t going and another hen party has been arranged in the UK for later in the year. I feel really angry and that I’ve been hoodwinked to go on this hen. I feel like why i am paying all of this money when even half of her bridesmaids aren’t making the effort. I really want to pull out but I’ll probably end up looking worse for doing that.
Does anyone have any thoughts/advice? Thank you
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