Hi everyone,
I recently got engaged to my partner of three years. This will be my first marriage (at age 59!) and his second. My partner has a daughter, "Lucy" who is 20 and who asked him two years ago if she could be his "best man" if we got married. He said yes, of course. Lucy's his only kid (he was a single parent as his wife died when his daughter was five) and I can understand how he would want her to feel included. I have a pretty good relationship with Lucy, who is mostly away at college these days, and I get that I'm lucky to have a future stepdaughter who likes me enough to want to be in the wedding. I want to include her but since I won't be having a bridesmaids or a maid-of-honor I have a hard time envisioning the three of us being the focus during our vows. I'd really rather it be just be me and my fiancee standing before our officiant when it comes to the actual ceremony. Does anyone have ideas about how we can give Lucy some sort of elevated role, without creating the look and feel of a trio?
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