Getting Married Abroad

Is there anyone out there who has opted for a wedding abroad over a UK wedding?
I'm asking because things as getting out of hand here in the UK. I got engaged in Nov and the moment we started to talk about it I told my parents we didn't want a church wedding. Its never been something that myself and my partner have though about. After discussing this with my parents nothing was said for a few days.
We were told do what you want its your day. So after a few days passed thinking that "they took that better than expected" my bubble burst and I received a TEXT (yes you read that right a text) to say that THEY had been talking and THEY would prefer if we got wed in a church. I was taken back and replied asking why they wouldn't talk to me about this? I got no response and it hasn't been mentioned since.
Then being courteous I asked if there was anyone they would like to invite thinking it would be one or two. I could cope with one or two that I don't know but not 10+ ?!
Myself and my partner will be paying for the wedding and have made no requests for help nor do we intend to.
Were now thinking of a wedding abroad but my family may not come because it its what they want or they're busy with the family business.
everyone says not to worry and do what we want for our wedding, any ideas/advise what do you think?