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Beginner October 2014

Groom has cold feet... :-(

katie80uk, 4 July, 2014 at 10:48

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Well meant to have our 3 month meeting with the venue today, go through seating plans and menus etc and chance for me to ask my mountain of questions i have so i can get on with organising our wedding for October But my husband to be has called the venue yesterday and cancelled the meeting and told...

Well meant to have our 3 month meeting with the venue today, go through seating plans and menus etc and chance for me to ask my mountain of questions i have so i can get on with organising our wedding for October

But my husband to be has called the venue yesterday and cancelled the meeting and told me he doesn't think he wants to get married anymore! 3 months before our big day and now he comes out with it. Got most things sorted out so havent a clue what to do?? If we cancel we still need to pay 75% of the venue costs.

I am totally heartbroken :-( we haven't been getting on lately and i don't like his family, things have been tense with them the last few months. He says he cant handle the fighting between us and cant see it ever ending so would rather not get married

Totally gutted and don't know what i'm meant to do. Me and my 3 year old son moved out last night as cant bear to see him as its killing me x

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  • K
    Beginner October 2014
    katie80uk ·
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    Thank you SO much everyone. After what felt like days and days of talking we are getting there. I think I've just been so engrossed in the wedding and plans I never ever imagined a man could get cold feet and have doubts.

    We talked through our fears and concerns and things we wanted/didn't want for the future to hold for us. Things seem better but we agreed to stop all wedding talk/plans for the week and see how it goes. If he honestly can say he isn't 100% sure about getting married we will cancel it and that's probably for the best. Yes I'm angry about the time and money but if it means we stay together then money means nothing.

    Thank you everyone for your comments, you are all great and I love this group, so helpful and understanding and its great to know I'm not alone and other people have been through this xx

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  • alyj66
    VIP August 2014
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    this is probably the loveliest sentiment I've read in a long while, I really hope that you can work through this and become a stronger couple. Good luck xx

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  • Hoddy
    Beginner July 2014
    Hoddy ·
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    This. So glad you managed to have a chat about everything. I hope it all works out.

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