....so firstly i feel bad that he doesn't have anybody that he wants to be his b.man and I really wish he had somebody he feels he could rely on (his brother is not an option btw before anybody suggests family members step in!), although there is one mate he was 'close' (some guys just don't get close to people do they) to a couple of years ago but they only keep in touch intermittently now and he doesn't feel it's appropriate to ask him which is a shame.
ANybody else bucking a trend and not having a best man? I've only just managed to talk him into doing a speech himself - he hates speaking in public as most people do, but I do want some traditionalism to the whole thing, and at his last wedding (he's divorced) he didn't do speeches at all of any kind and didn't have a dj. !
Just wondering how common this is!!
