Feeling a little stressed regarding the guest list, our wedding is in September and the venue only allows for 60 people during the day then 120 in the evening (we can pay extra for extra people in the day but so far want to leave it quite small) I have quite a large extended family and my fiancé has a large immediate family so we have chosen immediate family and friends to the day, the only problem is his parents and sister (who live abroad) cannot make it
and his family here are a bit unpredictable and not sure if they will come on the day! I have some extra people I would like to invite but already sent them evening only invites, is it rude to re ask people to join in the day aswell? I feel it’s like a back up plan?