As I am sending our wedding invitations out over the weekend, I was wondering how split is your guest list. Is it 50/50? We only wanted a small affair but Andy way outnumbered my guests so I have started inviting friends that I would have loved to be there but wasn't going to so that it would be kept small. I'm now in a dilemma with the ceremony. As we are getting married in a registry office, we only have space for 48 guests. Looking at the list of who H2B wants to invite, his again way outnumbers the amount I was inviting which will not sit well with my family at all. I was only inviting my Mum & Dad, sisters and brother plus their +1's and my Grandma. That is 9 people whereas he was inviting around 20+ as he is inviting Aunts, Uncles and cousins. We haven't got enough room to invite mine if I follow his rule so something has to give, right?!
Have any of you had this same problem?