help !!

Until you have a date and everything in mind i would just start with moodboards and stuff, maybe with themes/colours/styles etc just to get a feel of what you might want, then a rough guest list, decide whether you want a big or small one and work out a budget. Once you've got these done you'll find yourself in a rhythm and you'll be able to go from there xx

I know it's boring, but start with a budget! There's no point getting excited about having a 200 person wedding in a castle and then finding out all you can afford is a 30 person wedding in the village hall!

If you can't get the wedding you want at the budget you can afford, then either you'll have to delay the wedding to save up longer or cut back on some of the trimmings.

Once you've got your budget in place, start thinking about overall vibe and the type of venue & time of year you might like.

You can start getting general ideas of the kind of photographer, florist and caterer you would like, but you won't be able to do anything definite about any of these until you have a venue and date.