Hey all..This sounds really petty but I just discovered this morning that one of my bridesmaids has 'unfriended' me on Facebook. I know my brother (chief bridesman) sent a message around to all of them in a fit of rage but that was him, not me. I've tried really hard to make things work of her as she wanted me to make special provisions for her son to come to our wedding breakfast only and leave in time for the reception. She also told me her boyfriend was only coming to the evening do until 4 days after the RSVP cut off date when she said he'd shifted work around and asked if he could come all day as she didn't have a date otherwise, to which I had to say no as numbers were confirmed. She's asked me for help and advice with hairstyles which I've tried to sort out on several occasions but has been ignored.
The defriend to be honest is not my biggest concern. She has run off with a £100 dress, claiming her Mum was going to alter it for her. She was supposed to return it this weekend ready to be ironed for the big day and hasn't. The fact that she has defriended me for no obvious reason and in spite of all I have done for her would indicate to me that she doesn't want to be my bridesmaid. Am I overreacting or should I tell her that I see severing communications as no longer wanting to be part of my wedding? I know it's petty and silly arguements happen over Facebook, but I'm very upset that she's done this to me. At best, if she'd told me she no longer wanted to be my bridesmaid I could of sold it on EBay. We're in very hard times financially and I know she has a much wealthier background than we do.
Thanks for reading
MrsStobe13 xx