Hen do Dilemma.

Hey everyone.
Im getting married abroad this year in Greece, and at the moment I'm having trouble planning a hen do, one of my bridesmaids are saying everyone I’ve asked are idiots and d**kheads, and to be honest with you all, i am slowly giving up hope, i made a chat with everyone i wanted to go, and i had sent 3 or 4 messages about what i wanted to do and no one replied to me. So I’ve done the right thing and to cancel it. Im stuck whether to do one or not.