I’m a maid of honor so appreciate if this is the wrong forum
(although I did join hitched last year when I was a bride looking for advice!) I’m now planning a friends hen do next year and I’m a bit stuck on how to do it. There’s 5 bridesmaids in a chat, which already has a few different opinion in it…. but the bride also has about 15 other people she wants to invite on the hen. I wanted to rent an air bnb or similar and decorate it all nice and think of games or activities we can do over one or two nights. (Although there have already been some objections from the bridesmaid chat…)But what do I do, do I make a group chat with the additional people, so there will be around 20 opinions to please in there, and ask if people would be up for a night or two away. Then based on those numbers I then decide. OR do I make that group chat and just tell them this is where I’m thinking it will be £x , or I’m thinking a spa day and it will be £x or a spa and accommodation £x. Do I have to go with the majority vote or is it a case of well if you can’t come you can’t come…?I think I’m just getting confused and a bit overwhelmed with how to organize it when there’s a lot of people and opinions. Thanks for any advice. C x
