Hen do worries

Hi all, after a bit of advice.


Feel like my Family are taking over 😅 apologies for the long rant!

I very much want my hen do to be a surprise in terms of planning and stuff other then knowing where we are going but I’m also very nervous about it.
My sister is my maid of Honour and we couldn’t be more opposite in terms of how we celebrate things. I barley drink at all like the odd drink if we go for dinner or at a concert or something.
My sister is quite a heavy drinker. I’m a bit worried that my hen do is going to involve a lot of drinker and I just don’t want that.
Some of my family and friends can’t go abroad for medical reasons and I’m not really one for asking people to spend money they don’t have. So I’ve agreed to have a little weekend away in the UK at maybe Butlins or something. My mum has got a bit carried away and started inviting literally any female family member I have and I’m just a bit over whelmed and don’t know how to tell her I don’t want all these people I only see once a year at my hen do!
Sorry for the long rant but needed to write it down before I exploded 🫣