Mine is two weeks before, I would have liked it to be a bit further away tbh but it's enough time to get rid of the spots that the alcohol will inevitably bring on!
Mine is waaaay in advance, im getting married in June next year but 2 of my close friends are also getting married soon before and soon after me so lots of hen parties for my group of friends.
So, we had a chat and decided we'd spread them out a bit to help everyone out with saving up! My hen weekend in Brighton will be October this year (didnt want it any closer to xmas or soon after) and then i will have a local night out a month before the wedding.
I didnt mind having mine early and i think it will work out well for all of us involved ?
We are thinking of going abroad, and if we do then it will need to be about 6 months before the wedding! We will do something closer to the time, too, though - I imagine this will just be a night out in town though. I would always aim to do this about 4 weeks in advance of the wedding.
Mine is 3 months before. Hen do 23rd March and wedding 23 June. My 30th birthday is in March so having a joint celebration. My OH is having is about 3-4 weeks before the wedding
Mine was two months before. I would have liked to do it a bit closer to the wedding, but loads of my friends are doctors, and we all change jobs in August, and usually don't know our rotas until a few days before we change (oh how I love NHS management!) so it would have made planning a nightmare. It worked out really well though; we had a fantastic weekend.
Mine will be 5 weeks before. It's the only date that my MOH can get with me, due to my work rota. The week before the wedding I'm at a 65th Birthday party.