So it was my hen night on Saturday and following on from that I have lost one of my oldest friends and 2 months before my wedding I have had to find a new mua!!
She was one of my oldest friends (17 years!!) and was meant to be doing my makeup at the hotel on the morning of my wedding! For some reason she's been a nightmare since i got engaged and critised everything i've chosen! She got married nearly 10 years ago by disappearing to Antigua and not involving anyone, which was her choice so I never critisised! So no hen party etc. Everything I have organised or chosen she's put down as a waste of money, time or effort and just been thoroughly negative and scathing! Then over the hen do because my moh is my 14 year old daughter by h2b's oldest friend offered to organise it for me (she never offered as she didnt want me to have one with anyone else there!) and she immediately started b*tching that she didn't want to do anything i had picked! The lady organising it set up a facebook event to keep everyone informed and every reply of my friend's was appallingly rude. She refused to join us for the cocktail making or the meal so sat at a different table the whole time and wouldnt come over! I didnt even know she was there in the bar because i wasnt on my phone! Because i didn't want sashes etc it was agreed that i would wear white and everyone else in black which everyone agreed to even though the girls from work are forced to wear black uniforms dlfor work every day, they didn't mind. She replied that no one was telling her what to wear and she'd wear what she wanted! Turned up in burgendy and first thing she said to me was to make snide remark about what i was wearing!! (I wore a long white top with black trousers!) Then started making digs about the bar we ended up going to after the cocktails/meal, saying "i thought this was supposed a classy hen do!" And saying it was full of peasants!! Then she blanked everyone and refused to stand with us, shooting daggers at everyone! Then started slagging the organiser off, calling her a c*nt and being really awful. Ended up calling it a night quite early as i couldnt stand the aggro. Got home and looked on her Facebook and saw post after post calling us all c*nts, how she'll always be younger and prettier (she's 4 years older than me!!) than that bunch of twisted hags etc!! Immediately uninvited her to wedding and she still didnt see she'd done anything wrong!! I sent her a message saying how out of order she was and that I was upset. I got a reply saying "I'm sorry but... and then went on to say how awful the organiser was, how rude, how it was clear that this woman didnt want her there etc!" I told her that was rubbish and it was her attitude that ruined it. Then I saw her twitter and shes been slagging me off for days saying it was a football themed hen which is total rubbish (h2b is football mad but I have no interest which she knows! And then making out she was chief bridesmaid and how it was all down to h2b making all of the girls treat her like rubbish!! Obviously none of it true and certainly never bridesmaid! I properly lost my temper at this point (now 3am sunday morning!!) So I posted screenshots on facebook which I've never done before as I hate airing dirty laundry on fb!! She didnt like that i posted it as its shown her for the liar that she is!!
And so now she's officially out of my life and im actually so relieved!! I was stressing about her being at the wedding as she cant get along with anyone anymore! She's obsessed with twitter and would prefer to make up lies on there like some sort of keyboard warrior!!! I'm sad that 17 years of friendship has ended like this but I feel like a weight has been lifted now her negative influence is out of my life!
I emailed some mua's at 5am sunday morning and luckily one has availability for my wedding date!
Sorry for the long ramble!!
Anna xx
